About me
So, Why Should You Adopt A Cuddle Buddy?
Cuddling is a soothing and therapeutic activity that releases a hormone secreted by the posterior lobe of the pituitary gland called "oxytocin". Also known as the "cuddle hormone", oxytocin stimulates that "warm and fuzzy" feeling that promotes love, social bonding, and overall well-being. Oxytocin helps lowers cortisol levels, strengthens the immune system and helps curb depression and anxiety, according to a study published in the medical journal Psychoneuroendocrinology.
My Cuddling Style
There is a lot more to cuddling than just spooning! I'm an "active" cuddler, I prefer plenty of contact, and generally don't like to stay in one position for too long. I like spooning, laying face-to-face, tight squishy hugs, playing with hands and hair, intertwining legs and arms, using gravity and giving back rubs and scalp massages. My ideal cuddle buddy is someone who is also an active cuddler, is respectful of boundaries and understands consent. Ideally, I’d like a semi-regular cuddle buddy to snuggle with at minimum, a couple of times a month.
Behavior
Please refrain from smoking cigarettes or applying strong perfume/cologne before our cuddle session, as these may irritate my sinuses. Sexual behavior will *not* be tolerated.
About Me
I live an active lifestyle and enjoy writing, sci-fi, comic books, singin' in the rain, dancing with wolves and other activities based on movies. Except for Die Hard. I don't like the idea of dying if I'm being honest.
Conclusion
Cuddling releases oxytocin and relieves stress, deepens relationships and can help people live a full, rich and affectionate life. If any of what I said strikes your fancy, I would love to hear from you. For your safety and mine, I would like to meet face to face in a public area before any cuddling takes place. I look forward to embracing each other and embracing the wonders of platonic intimacy!
RESOURCES: For more information on the art of cuddling and skills and techniques to enhance cuddling in your personal life, check out some of my favorite books on the topic!
The Book of Cuddles, Yoni Alkan DHS
The Cuddle Sutra: An Unabashed Celebration of the Ultimate Intimacy, Rob Grader
Touch: The Power of Human Connection, Samantha Hes