About me
***Virtual sessions available***
I'm a writer whose debut novel, forthcoming from Riverhead Books, features a protagonist who becomes a professional cuddler. Over the past seven years, I've researched the prevalence of skin hunger and the physiological benefits of touch and massage, from promoting healthy development in early childhood to lowering stress levels, increasing oxytocin, and alleviating depression. Touch is integral to being human: it's the first sense to develop when we're still in the womb, and the last to leave us in old age.
I hope to put some of what I'm been reading and writing about into practice, and meet folks interested in platonic, therapeutic touch! You'll be entering a safe, nurturing, judgment-free zone built on consent and communication. People of all ages, ethnicities, genders, orientations, abilities, and sizes are welcome.
I strongly prefer not to host at this time, but can travel to your home, a hotel, or a public space such as a park or a cafe. I'm based in Bushwick, Brooklyn, and prefer to stay local. If the commute exceeds 20 minutes, there will be a travel fee, and if we meet at a hotel, I ask that the client book the room.
Before we meet, we'll have a quick Zoom or FaceTime call to get to know each other and communicate our boundaries, wishes, and expectations. 50% of the fee will be required to book the appointment, and the rest will be due at the start of the session. Please note that any sexual or romantic advances will end the session without a refund.
To propose a session, please reach out with:
1. a couple times you're free for a 15-minute call,
2. the desired length of the session,
3. where you would be able to host,
4. a couple times you're free for the in-person session, and
5. confirmation of how you would like to pay the deposit.
I am fully vaccinated with a booster shot, and ask that you are as well.
If you have any other questions, feel free to ask!
Rates & Services
Facts
| Join Date |
December 2021 |
| Cuddles |
Everyone |
| Can be |
Guest, Public |
| Preferred Days |
Sun, Mon, Tue, Wed, Thu, Fri, Sat |
| Preferred Times |
Morning, Afternoon, Evening |
| Location: |
Brooklyn, NY |
| Height |
5' 4" |
| Body Type |
Athletic |
| Car Owner |
No |
| Pets |
Cat |
| Drinks |
Socially |
| Smokes |
No |
| Ethnicity |
Asian |
| Children |
Has no children |
No friends to show yet :(
JCuddlist was great, she had a very nice apartment, with nice comfortable music, she's very friendly and accepting, our cuddle session went very well, she even massaged me towards the end, we spoke a lot, I did most of the talking and she listened. From the little that I got to know of her she seems to be a very open minded person. I would recommend her to everyone.
l•••••l
5 months ago
Had a wonderful time with JCuddlist, felt very at home with her and she was super intentional about communicating and making it a nice time
r•••••a
8 months ago
My first cuddling session with JCuddlist was amazing!!! I felt so comfortable and relaxed during our cuddling session. Great communication and conversation. I'm definitely looking forward to our next cuddling session!
I've had a few virtual sessions with J and it's just so relaxing to converse with someone who cares and allowed me to be heard. Now I want to be held and hope to meet her in person soon. She's writing a fascinating story and living a fascinating life. I appreciate her responsiveness, punctuality, and her welcoming spirit. What I want most from cuddling is the attention of a kind soul and the enveloping presence of grace. J's fully attentive and she assures me that I matter. I'm grateful to her for these experiences.
J•••••1
1 year ago
You wouldn't know that JCuddlist was new to this by how naturally gifted she is with cuddling. Great communication and conversation before and during our session. I will definitely see her again and again.