About me
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I am passionate about learning how to give caring touch, being present and creating safe spaces for expression. Cuddle services to me embody these principles and offer people a gentle opportunity to discover the nurturing touch they seek.
My approach is informed by my work as a mediator, Thai massage practitioner, and study of Dr. Betty Martin’s Wheel of Consent, which have all shaped how I listen and hold space for others.
My goal during each session is to allow you to feel safe and cater to the platonic touch you seek, be it sitting together, lying down, cuddling, talking or anything that relaxes you.
A testimonial:
“I felt so incredibly safe with Vinny, and am grateful to have worked with him in my first cuddlist experience. He set me at ease with his deep honoring of the boundaries I set beforehand, open communication, warm personality, and gentle nurturing embrace. His professional space was easy to find, bright, clean, and quiet. It felt like a cozy cocoon in the middle of the City. I left feeling very seen, held, and nourished and I look forward to scheduling another session with Vinny in the future” – Sabrina Sundari
About the session:
Accessible by public transit downtown, my apartment has a studio room which I turn into a cuddle space on a mat with pillows. Relaxing music can be catered to your liking. I usually smudge the space before you arrive (unless you are sensitive to scents). The session begins when we create our agreement, including how to communicate preferences, with a focus on empowering you to voice your wants and needs.
Fully vaccinated for Covid-19. Proof available upon request.