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24 - Man - Greater London, England, GB
"I like to cuddle while watching something, talking, listening to music or napping"
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Hello! I'm Barnaby. A socially anxious guy who loves to cook, make plans to go the gym that fall through and dreams about being covered in various baby animals.
Found this site randomly on Reddit and thought I'd give it a try, I'm deeply missing the feeling you get from holding someone or being held, as well as the joy from providing the same to someone else. I'm after hugs, cuddles and snuggles with the occasional nose boop to really spice things up - nothing more and nothing less. By holding someone or being hold, I'll admit that most of my experience with that comes from growing up with cats and one named Freddy in particular who would spend most days curled up on my bed or in my lap.
I'm not interested in finding anything more than a person or people to cuddle with right now (well, a gym buddy or cooking partner would be nice), I don't trust easily so will want to make sure both my boundaries and the boundaries of anyone that I get talking to are made perfectly clear before anything happens.
I’m on the autistic spectrum and am generally awkward as an apple trying to become friends with a cod, while communicating with said cod via interpretative dance as described to the cod by an octopus with bad eyesight and even worse handwriting while also having that whole ordeal described by me here for you all to read for an infinitely collapsing and paradoxical black hole of awkward.
More than a little camera shy but will have skype/discord/etc calls before a meeting to put us both at ease if it's required, and will meet in public first too if asked to. I've got some medical issues that prevent me from travelling particularly far so unlikely I'll visit anyone outside London, but more than happy to host or visit somewhere relatively close by.
+ (25/11/2019) I've now met a cuddle buddy off site thanks to reddit, so may be deactivating my account for an extended period of time or outright deleting it soon (depending on how things go in the next few weeks - we've only met once so far but it went great, and are planning on meeting weekly). For anyone reading this, I never thought I'd be able to find someone to cuddle and be comfy with, if an antisocial weirdo such as myself can find someone then you can too. Don't give up hope!
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