Hi its nice to meet everyone. I'm Lavender and if anyone is interested in booking with me let me know!!!
@lovely_lavender the term “open minded” is a euphemism used by sex workers. You might want to change that on your profile.
@FunCartel Seems kind of rude to allude to her being a sex worker just because her profile says open minded? Why not private message her instead of publicly shaming her....
@Melancholy I did not allude to her being a sex worker. I alluded to a term in her profile being associated with sex work and suggested she might want to change it. There is a big difference. If I thought she was a sex worker why would I suggest she change the wording?
Rude is saying someone is rude when they are trying to save her from being perceived as a SW.
I use that term all the time!! 👀 I even said it once in a job interview 😅 is that really what it means? Im honestly asking this as a french speaker, maybe other people could confirm as well? I say it on my profile that im open minded when it comes to conversation. meaning I won't judge someone base on one single conversation and I like to chat about different kind of things as long as it is respectful and not too personal.
@RainsCuddle I sent you a private message explaining the difference so the kids don’t get upset.
Unfortunately, the term “open minded” is being used as a code word for willing to engage in non-platonic activity. I would avoid it on this site. It has connotations that don’t apply in normal conversation.
"Flexible" is another one. When someone describes a good experience they had with another cuddler in saying that they were "flexible", that leads to me assuming it means "... in boundaries".
Hey y’all, um, mine says, “free spirit.” Is that a questionable description?