I’m still pretty new. What information do you feel is reasonable to ask for before meeting someone? For me it especially applies if someone has no picture and very minimal information on their profile. I definitely want to chat with them to feel the vibe but for me so far, I think it’s reasonable for them to give me their first and last name and for me to perhaps do some checking on cyberspace so that I (hopefully) know they are a real person. It seems some take offense to that. After we’ve been chatting, I will give you my name and you are free to do the same, even though as a woman I am much more vulnerable than a guy is.