How does this cuddling stuff work?
I would suggest clicking on the "View all Discussions" tab on the home page and scrolling until you find threads that can answer more specifically what you seek to know.
In general, find someone you would like to cuddle (and describes you as a potential cuddle buddy in their profile), get to know them thru conversation, and, after you and they feel comfortable, set up an in person meeting. Check out youtube or the "Cuddle Sutra" for cuddle positions. Meet somewhere public and neutral first to make sure chemistry and boundaries work. And then... Cuddling! (This all may take weeks or months to get to the actual cuddling part, so be patient. In the meantime, make yourself visible on this site thru the forums, and read as much as you can. You may have to change your worldview a bit to fit in and not be offensive.)
This is just a jumping off point. Much more great advice to come from others.
Edit: the more you fill out your profile, the better your chances of finding a cuddle match. Especially your About Me section.
@DonTra welcome! The Frequently Asked Questions sticky at the top of this board is very helpful, have a good read.
The cuddling community in general, and certainly this website, rewards patience, effort and thoughtfulness. If you try to rush things you will get nowhere. Just take your time, and settle in.
@DonTra I'm really curious about what kind of answer you're hoping to get. I'd like to think cuddling is not a game. It's the opposite of a game. It's nurturing your soul, being real, fostering connections with others, growing as a human being. I don't want to try to tell you how to do anything here except perhaps to be open-minded and patient.
UCpaaHVg6u0 - absolutely great advice. I been on this community for a few weeks and I still havnt had a booking for a session. Although it’s really about scheduling. The pros here have been pretty patient and understanding of scheduling conflicts. Super sweet female cuddlers , I can tell the majority really enjoy what they can do for others. Even females helping females . So ya, I’m learning it takes patients and always be respectful to everyone. Hopefully I get a first cuddle buddy that is good with beginners like me . Fingers and toes crossed.
@MandoMan I've been regularly seeing a professional cuddler here for over a year, minus the pandemic hiatus, during which we used virtual contact. We are at a point in the pandemic where some people evidently feel it's past while others are still hunkered down. That's one reason to be patient. I've really only been with two pro cuddlers, mostly the one I see from time to time. She tells me that many guys are hard to deal with, and are too often attempting to sexualize the cuddle, and a few were downright scary. It's really important to understand that pro women cuddlers here, and I assume in general, are constantly fending off bs from guys. When you consider the risk and the level of bs, the rates don't seem high at all. Often a spa massage costs more.