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Can we spend cuddle coins on pros?
This got interesting. Going back to the OP on April 28 .... questioned if not finding anyone was just his situation or does everyone else has same problem finding somebody here. Well his karma the next day looks like he got his answer I think 🤔.
@Chefkate I’m so sorry for this, ugh this is a platonic site. Hopefully all those people were reported and banned. I don't get what's so hard to understand about this. Rather, I don't think it's a lack of understanding but a lack of caring.
@DarrenWalker Sorry you had to deal with a bozo.
Going back to OP's thread, this subject is pretty much the complimentary subject to the cuddle wealth thread @littermate started. So this is basically the cuddle poverty thread.
@OhioMike Looks like he did find someone to cuddle with. I'm assuming the OP meant cuddling with an enthusiast though, as that is a reoccurring theme in many threads and seems to be of great difficulty for many (male) forumers.
@sunnysideup ...the OP did? Oh the karma says otherwise Oh love your town Frostburg btw. The train tours , festivals , college. It’s a neat town 👍
His karma reflected that he scheduled an appointment but turned it down, I don’t know the full story
Yes, Frostburg is a neat little town!
I don’t know full story either just what we know from OP. Post challenging to find people. Next day scheduled session. Then cancelled. If that’s the rationalization of why it’s challenging then I concur. Posting, schedule, cancel. Yeah I don’t think that’s going to be a successful plan. But hey if it works for somebody, carry on 😊
The karma implies that the OP cancelled voluntarily, which suggests that OP did find someone to cuddle but something unrelated to OPs topic got in the way (since the other party agreed to cuddle).
Hopefully all involved are happy and everything went well 😊. CC great site with lots of great people to meet
So I was the person he booked with. As you can see from the Karma I left him, he didn't show up after numerous texts and a confirmation 2 hours before. He reached out the next day and asked for another appointment with apologies for flaking on me. I told him I'd remove the negative karma post as long as he didn't stand me up again. So we booked for 9am yesterday. I asked that he PLEASE communicate with me if he wasn't going to be able to make it. Well, he stood me up again. He had my phone number and could've texted. I saw he logged onto this site an hour prior to our set appointment. In his initial contact he told me he is married and wanted me to come to his house before his wife got home from work. Absolutely not I said. I told him I don't judge that he is married, restated that following the cuddle rules is a must and that this is only platonic.
I don't want to have to ask for deposits but after having another client stand me up the day before Marshall did, it has me considering it. There's prep that goes into being ready to host a client. I've had a healing practice for years and have never had this many clients being inconsiderate.
Great response. So maybe meeting people here is challenging if you make it challenging. Hmmmmmm. Makes sense I think 🤔
@Magickwoman the OP didn't say anything about you or a session with you . I realize you are bothered by what happened re cancellation etc. , just would like to point out that this is something to leave in a karma comment, and not on the public forum . It is not appropriate place for this .
I understand @pmvines . This post was brought to my attention by someone and since I didn't see/can't see his original post, I'm not sure what was said in regards to me or my services. Perhaps I erroneously thought that since someone brought it to my attention that there was negative information posted.
Original Poster @marshallbarnett , many of us whom have been married can understand when a marriage goes through a cuddle drought.
Someone can need cuddles but wouldn't yet be ready to give up on a lonely marriage because of how intertwined a couple's lives are or because of hopes that the situation will improve.
When talking with a potential snuggle partner be sure to communicate your situation. Communication is ALWAYS important. And remember this isn't a singles / hookup site, but a site for people that simply need a hug because we're all only human.
One's first step to improve their life must first come from one's self.