A lot of the discussions we have on this forum about unwanted touch is about men touching women sexually when it's supposed to be a platonic experience. I'd like to actually broaden the conversation and talk about unwanted touch in general.
I've been consent educated for many years now, but I've just started to become hyperaware of the amount of unwanted touch people (and animals) put up with in their regular lives on a daily basis (probably because its my job to pay attention to touch boundaries). Women get a lot of unwanted sexual touch, but I'd like to open the floor for people to talk about the unwanted touch that we all experience as part of cultural norms. For example: tickling, dunking, giving really violent hugs, jabbing someone in the ribs. What kinds of culturally normal touch do you hate? How do you set boundaries for yourself (or do you?). Yesterday I screamed at a man at the beach for repeatedly dunking a three year old (who was fighting for his life) into the ocean. His reply was "he's my child". I'd like to normalize setting boundaries around unwanted touch, and that goes for ALL unwanted touch, not just the unusual ones. Children, animals, male bodies, female bodies and everything in between. We all get to say NO to Aunt Lily who likes to plant a wet one on our foreheads.