How would you describe this experience?
Had my first cuddle session last week. What made things easier is your both know each other prior to meeting like talking for few weeks to see if there is a connection..knowing what the person looks like and both parties find attraction/decency to each other.. and then starting your cuddle by sitting on the couch first like we did and watch a movie...the rest should feel natural . Everyone reacts and is different but in my first experience I gave it a 8
Before I ever did a cuddle from this site, I thought it would be a little awkward.
But I actually love it overall. I find cuddling up to somebody you just met is actually a really great way to get to know somebody. And, while longer term connections are obviously great too, it's really awesome to meet all kinds of different people, people who you would never find in your social circle, and make these transient connections with them, where you spend a couple hours together and touch each others' lives in a small way.
It's actually amazing how great you can feel after spending a couple hours with a stranger.
It's not always perfect of course, sometimes you meet somebody and you just don't quite click, and some cuddlers are just not great people. But taken as a whole it's awesome.
BTW part of the reason I'm not interested in cuddling enthusiasts is because cuddling pros has spoiled me as far as just meeting somebody and immediately cuddling up together. For me, all the messaging that enthusiasts want to do up front is just... not it. I mean I don't blame them for it, I understand why they want to do it, but it's not for me. The cuddling is where you actually get to know somebody and see if you click. The less preamble the better.
If it's a pro or non-pro from this site any awkwardness doesn't last long because we all know that cuddling is what we are here to do. But with a non-pro there is a little more awkwardness because there is more protocol. I think when you selected a pro out of the crowd and are paying them there is less questions involved. I'm sure it's been asked a lot before but I'd like to know what it is like for a pro more than a non-pro. I'd imagine it's a different feeling to be the selectee versus the selector and if it feels awkward, or scary, or fun - or if it just feels like your job.
It can be awkward in some moments, you may feel the urge to abandon the whole thing, tense up. But then when that moment is over it becomes pure bliss and you feel like you have known each other for years.
Re-enacting scenes from Dragonball Z with a stranger can be difficult. There's always the possibility that they might botch a line, or that they're not great at striking certain poses; nothing in this world is quite as deflating as an impromptu partner messing up the fusion dance, or hearing someone growl "His power level is above 10,000!"
But, when things go smoothly, it's exhilarating.
I always find it awkward at first, because I worry about making people feel uncomfortable or pressured. I take things really slowly, especially when meeting someone to cuddle with for the first time. But once we get started, the awkwardness goes away quickly and it feels really natural and relaxing.
Absolutely depends on the person, the energy, the setting and you. But the one pattern I do see is I am naturally nervous and my coping mechanism is to be a Chatty Cathy—yes I am adorable in pigtails 😂—so I have to force myself to shut up and dive in with an embrace. The feeling is electric and I start blabbing out of excitement, but I have been fortunate over time to have partners that picked up on the connection between my nervousness and chatter and pull me back in with a hug and a deep breath and we drift off into Blissland where our hugs are passports to entry into a truly human connection. But I am blabbing again aren’t I?
For me, awkward at first, but only for about 2 minutes. Then it's all fun and games. Good communication really helps.