@pmvines I have it saved on that cellular telephone I got
@Robert777
I'm confused why some people are equating a car to a non-platonic cuddle. And I'm confused why it wouldn't be safe. I think meeting in a car is much safer than meeting at a stranger's house.
Small confined space. Mobile. How are majority of people who are assaulted transported? Vehicles. Women avoid alot of scenarios that could result in being taken advantage of and being in a strangers vehicle is one of them. At your house I at least have a physical address to give to my safety crew. A rusty black 2001 PT cruiser is 1/200000.
Also it's incredibly uncomfortable to cuddle in a car with no room to stretch out, it can become stuffy unless you have the perfect weather outside to open the windows.
There's a million other places I'd rather cuddle than in someone's car. Movie theater, park, courtroom bench during night court, a Knights Inn but just barely.
It's interesting how most woman have no problem going into a strange man's house, but would object going into a car in public. I figured it would be the other way around.
@OhioMike ah the cellular telephone and interwebs !what a neat fad those two things are . You think they will last ?
I cuddled in a car once with a professional cuddler. It was nice. I can't host and I have had several pro cuddlers suggest car cuddling. It doesn't seem to be that uncommon.
@denvercuddler1 @Robert777 a car is much riskier than a house. It's weird that you think it's the other way around, because it's obvious. A house is a place the police can go to start their enquires.
Your confusion is good evidence that you haven't actually thought about this at at all. This is confusing to me, because I thought about this when I was a teenager. I learnt some of it from the homeless alcholics (known as 'winos') who frequented the street where I lived. They were very concerned for the safety of women, especially young woman, and some of them - on a good day - were conscious of how scary a picture they could present to a lone woman.
Everybody knew it. How do you get to be an adult and not know it? That's a genuine question by the way, it puzzles me.
A car gets equated to a non-platonic cuddle because - particularly in American culture as I understand it - there are only two things you can do in a car. Go somewhere, and make out with a view to getting to 2nd or 3rd base. Since getting into a car for a cuddle isn't going anyway, there is an immediate cultural assocation with non-platonic activities.
@CuddleDuncan
I disagree. The man could give a fake address, he has two men waiting in the bushes, she's attacked and in the trunk if the car.
I definitely think meeting in a car in public is much safer.
I have been in cars with many women and it was 100% platonic.
@denvercuddler1 what the actual f. I'm glad I'm getting to see how your mind works. "fake address" thank you for supporting my reasoning for screening.
@MaineCuddle
Calm down. It was just stated what could happen.
Just like @CuddleDuncan saying he could murder a woman with one hand if he wanted to.
As far as screening, the person could just use a relative's name and assume their identity.
@johnaz oh you're telling a woman to calm down now? Sweetie, this is exactly why I screen. You would not be able to get away with that with me.
A fake address??!!! I've heard it all now!
Anecdotally, the two men waiting in the bushes is a risk that male clients face. Criminals have been known to create fake professional profiles. Seems like a lot of effort for a wallet and a phone, but it has happened.
I would never want to meet you. I'm not sure why you would think I have any interest in you. There is a reason you have zero karma.
Don't call me sweetie. I find that very offensive. lol
@CuddleDuncan except for the fact that professionals actually have to give real world information to this website. I mean they have our credit card...
@MaineCuddle exactly. Why would you waste a stolen credit card on setting up a fake account? I mean I suppose you're hoping to get two from the wallet, but why not just mug somebody on the street? Which is what leads me to believe that there is a story behind such cases.
@CuddleDuncan Yeah that's quite a convoluted scheme. Lol
There are prepaid credit cards Just saying.
I have in fact had my credit card stolen by a pro here -- who was already banned by the time I realized.
When I meet women from this site, I do perceive some level of risk, but it's not really due to any physical threat. Indeed I don't think it's very likely there will be men hiding in wait for me. As @CuddleDuncan says, if that's the plan why not just assault some random person in the street?
On the original topic, I've never even understood why anyone would want to cuddle in a car. Young people do things in cars because they have nowhere else to go. But we're adults here... you can get a day use hotel for fairly cheap.
@CuddleWho
Sorry to hear that. I had $100 stolen from me from a female pro on another site This is why I no longer bring anything with me when I do a cuddle session.
I guess the same could be said as to why peeping toms do what they do instead of looking up naked woman online. I assume it's the thrill. Like meeting somebody online and waiting for them in the bushes.
There are some woman who won't meet in hotels and I don't host, so sometimes a car or other public setting is the best option.
They're not for me. Those who have asked me on this website seemed creepy so no thanks. One also who isn't from this website asked too and I told him no which is still odd to me because he is a regular cuddler who should know by now but I guess he thinks that since he is a regular then answers will change for him....lol
Hi I have a very cute VW Beetle. My name is Mr. Bundy, but you can call me Ted. Wanna cuddle in my car?
Yeah, not creepy at all.
Definitely not! At least, not until I've gotten a feel for someone in-person, and my gut instinct says they're at least 95% safe. I don't make it a habit to get into strangers' cars - I like to give a solid address (or at least a fairly specific location) to a friend in case I go missing.
For the record: I've had a dude decide to drive me somewhere I didn't agree to go, after I'd already gotten into his car and we were on the highway, and it is not an experience I want to repeat - it's bloody scary.
Wish I still had a picture but.... when I first started cuddling I offered cuddling in my jeep compass while in CA and had a few very nice platonic sessions in a parking lot overlooking a park. I was able to put the seats down and fit in a twin-sized mattress. The weather was nice at the time, I don't think we would do that now at 104 where I am currently visiting. We met at the park and didn't drive our cars anywhere. I have also cuddled in a movie theater and it was very nice and comfortable, definitely felt safe, the seats reclined and the cup holders were also put up so it felt like we were cuddling on a couch. There weren't many people there and we sat at the top so I didn't feel self conscious about people seeing us.
I am going to use this for my cuddle car. I have asked a couple of pro's if they would be up for it and had positive response.
Try again
@CuddleDuncan "make sure you give her an out. I.e. make it easy for her to refuse, and obvious that you will not be offended if she does. "Would you like me to pick you up? It's on my way so it's no trouble. If you'd rather make your own way that's great, I'll just see you there." " YES! This is the way.
I would cuddle in my own car in a public place, with me in control of the keys, but not in a man's car, unless I knew him well and trusted him completely. Too easy for him to take me to Crime Scene B.
I agree @Cuddle_RN I felt safe because it was my Jeep and the first times I met with a stranger to cuddle I would hide my keys, lower the windows to let the breeze in and I would play music on my phone. There were usually other cars in the parking lot, we usually cuddled while there was daylight and I always told a friend where I was and how long I expected to be there. Now I've found more ways to feel safe including having my sister track my phone at all times with an app.
Of coarse I prefer getting a hotel to host which I don't mind going half on with the cuddle but it was a way to suggest an alternative since I don't have a place to host while in town with family.
I would not feel safe getting into a strangers car for a cuddle. Besides, I also made sure to make it comfortable, had sheets, a blanket, pillows, aromatherapy spray ect. I'm technically the pro so why not set the scene as well.