I realized recently that affectionate, platonic touch (especially hugs) from another man is a lot easier for me to receive than from a woman. Current theories:
- Lack of same-sex affection growing up created a vacuum where the sense of affection is intensified due to its "unfamiliarity".
- Lack of potential romantic implications (i.e. no potential for attraction) makes the encounter easier to process and enjoy.
- The other person (male) willingly violating "social norms" for male behavior making the affectionate touch more meaningful.
- Men just have more upper body strength and I just like tighter hugs.
Thoughts?