Would you want to be held by someone who is not attracted to you :) ?

There is enough in the question of title to ponder.

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  • Context needed. How do you know they are not attracted to you? Did they tell you? Or is it an assumption? And why does it matter?

  • Sounds dreamy to me!

  • I assume that the pros I cuddle with are not attracted to me.

    What I do hope for is that a pro finds me interesting enough so that the session is enjoyable for her, and not just some drudgery that pays the bills.

    In that sense, I hope that they are attracted by my heart and my mind, and that they are not repulsed by my physical presence. As far as I know, this has been the case with anyone I have cuddled.

    If I thought they were physically attracted to me, I'd probably choose a different partner, considering this site's terms of service.

  • It's just as wrong to use someone else (for $) , as it is to allow yourself to be used. Self Respect/Dignity > oxytocin . Period

  • Don't want to hire a Pro? That's your choice, @stachedevanich - but you don't get to make that decision for anyone else but you.

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