Ny husband says Next year january we both agree probably will eliminate the 2 step process but right now with only a week on the site. There is alot i need to learn gain experience and confidence first.
@SaraVirtual Why were they talking down to you or calling you names? Was it because you were married or were they just being disrespectful because they didn’t get the answers they wanted?
@FunCartel because they didn't get answers they wanted they would say things like other pros do this why don't you. Etc but different pros have different boundaries so I don't think its fair for me to minick other Pros if my confidence level is different because I'm new and still learning. Its one thing to respectfully disagree its another to talk down to me and use personal attacks on my decision making for not complying. I almost lost faith in the site on day one until I met so many wonderful people
@SaraVirtual ...other Pros do what exactly?
If you're receiving messages from potential clients who are seeking anything that violates the CuddleComfort TOS, you should report them.
If it's just a misunderstanding about rates, hosting versus guesting, etc, then I recommend blocking them once their messages cross your comfort zone.
I've heard that BS too. "Other pros let me cuddle in my underwear"
I dont care what other pros let you do. I am not other pros!
I’ll add my voice to the “other pros do x” ruse. That line is often used to try to get someone to give in to their demands. Don’t fall for it. Even if other pros do “x” it doesn’t matter, you are not them. Stick to your boundaries. Anyone who is trying to push them is not your ideal client. Don’t argue with them. Say no, report them, and move on.
Yes, if "other pros" let them do what they want, tell them to call those other pros then and leave you alone.
Thank you so much everyone I suffer from low self esteem issues as it is my husband suggested site to build confidence and I see the potential. It will help me become a stronger person and develop more interpersonal skills. I dont yo make this forum longer than it needs to be Thank you so much for all input I may reach put to a few of you personally for more direct questions because dont want to drag this on. Thanks everyone ☺
@SaraVirtual That is wrong on so many levels but you did the right thing in standing your ground. Regardless, there really is no good reason for them to denigrate someone they do not know.
Not sure if jumping into being a pro cuddler is the best way to build one’s self-esteem or develop interpersonal skills, especially if the impetus for that was coming from someone else. I’m concerned that it could backfire. The experiences you’ve already had highlights just some of the problems one can encounter.