I’m a woman and when I get a cuddle request from someone, and their profile says they cuddle ‘woman’ rather than ‘everyone,’ I’m unlikely to go ahead with it.
Why?
Well, because I want someone to cuddle me because I’m a PERSON rather than because I’m a WOMAN.
And there is a big difference there. I want my cuddle buddy to focus on the human part of me rather than on my gender. I’m NOT a gender. I just HAVE a gender, and my gender shouldn’t matter anyway if the cuddle is platonic.
I have found two wonderful men and one lovely lady on this site who feel great to cuddle as I know they don’t care for my gender, just my humanity. Their profiles says they cuddle ‘everyone.’
I’ve cuddled people on this site before who say they only cuddle woman and let me just say it feel VERY different. Not the same. Not that good.
And don’t call me a hypocrite just because my profile says I only cuddle woman. I do cuddle men too, it’s just that I have plenty of male cuddle buddies right now and would like to even up the numbers on each side.