I was chatting with someone, and in the course of the conversation they mentioned a predicament. I started typing out an advice that would benefit them, but then I realized (while typing) that I have not been asked for an advice on the matter. It also reminded me of a thread on here recently where unsolicited advice was frowned upon. The next thought that I had was, "I should first ask if they would like me to give an advice on this matter". But then I realized there has never been an instance (in my short life), that someone posed this question and the other person said, "No". I felt that I would indirectly be imposing my advice on them by asking this question. "Indirectly" may not be a good word to use here but my vocabulary is failing me right now. I hope you are able to understand what I am trying to say. So, I decided to ask this community on your thoughts in this matter.
I understand that sometimes people I speak to just want me to have a listening ear. How do I discern between if they just want a listening ear or if they are open to listening to advice? Or do you think it is not wrong to just ask if they need advice on this matter and it is not on me to do any discerning?