Choosing a Potential Cuddler

Drop_the_Mike

Any tips on how to screen a potential cuddler?

Gallowglass

• Their profile says something about them that you connect to.
• Location
• If your interactions with them, don't trigger red flags for you.
• Some will, some will not, engage in a conversation or small talk. If they are very business-like, don't let that put you off. But if you can start a small conversation, trust your gut on your comfort.
• On this site, you can look at the date they joined. If they've stuck around for at least a year or two, that's a vote of confidence.
• If you do start a conversation, go as far to say, hey I like your profile and I'm hoping we can connect sometime.
• If they don't respond or if it is a, "No", don't read too much into it. (I know this isn't a screening item. It's just useful advice.)
• You can look to see if they have karma and get a feel for them, from the notes left by others.
• You can maybe see them posting in the forums and get a feel for them that way.

Hope this helps. Peace.

Yes. You have to communicate. Real communication and not just superficaial words. If you're authentic and they're not, move on. Most will want a zoom meeting. If it's a short one, move one. The longer a zoom meeting is, it starts becoming a lot harder for a person to bullsh1t another person.

Just be real, find your person, solid gold.

I always look at a person’s profile that includes their “friends” and “good karma”which will reflect their level of experience hopefully for a first timer that’s kind of a nice way to start.

You open the conversation with,”hey I’m a new person here I would like to know how has your experience been? would you be interested in meeting me for coffee and conversation?” type stuff. After you have that first meeting then perhaps on the second meeting you can meet for cuddles if both of you are comfortable☺️