Hey guys.
This may be a controversial topic, but it's been on my mind a lot since I joined a month and a half ago.
I have met quite a few of you who are in a relationship that no longer includes physical affection of any kind. I find it heartbreaking, but I also recognize that I've never been married, I don't have kids, and I simply haven't been through it...
So I'm honestly asking, because I want to understand...what makes you stay? I'm not suggesting that you should leave, and I'm not even trying to bring up whether seeking affection elsewhere is moral or not.
I can also come up with my own ideas of why...for the sake of the kids, because you still love them, fear of being alone or starting over, hurting them, religious reasons, familial reasons, financial reasons... I can imagine reasons, but I would like to know your actual experiences.
I just really want to hear from those of you in this scenario...what makes you stay?
As always, feel free to open up in PM if you don't want to splash your personal business around the board. And if no one wants to share, that's 100% fine, too. This has just really been weighing on my mind. Big hugs going out to each of you. 💙
~ Sunset Snuggles