I can't delete my post so I will edit it. I was trying to spark debate about a disconnection I feel is in society today and it seems I clouded the intended message. It made it sound like I was trying to blame women for this disconnect, I am not.
Men are equally to blame if not more to blame, many men tear down men who show even slight affections toward one another. In middle eastern countries straight men hug and even hold hands sometimes. In America you would be called a queer by many people. Men are statistically far more lonely than women. A woman can make a profile and often many guys will message her. Even if the choices suck most women will still have choices. As Joe Rogan said, many average Joe Shmoes cannot join a dating site and get even a PM.
My curiousity is whether this Is why we have so many mass shootings in America. Because psychologists have proven that pretty much all serial or mass killers were either neglected or abused at some point in their lives. Neglect or disconnect from other people causes some very negative psychological effects in humans. We are meant to be a part of a tribe. When we don't feel loved one of the easiest and yet most childish ways to escape from this is anger. Which is akin to throwing a temper tantrum. A quote from Mary Shelley's Frankenstein comes to mind " I have love in me the likes of which you cannot imagine and rage in me the likes of which you cannot believe, if I cannot satisfy the one I will indulge the other."
Also in Japan men kill themselves at twice the rate of women. The leading cause of male suicide in Japan is loneliness. What do you all think? Is it a lack of human connection and affection to blame or is the problem deeper than that?