When you've cuddled for a while, maybe after a few hours, do you find yourself going into an almost meditative state? I've cuddled a fair amount of people, and if not taken in a sexual direction, it's predictable that the following will happen to me and my cuddle partner:
There's lots of energy and excitement at first, especially with a new person while we're getting to know each other. Then things slow down, touches become lighter, more sensual, and that's when I know we're both getting into the zone. I take lots of deep breaths or I sigh a lot. For some unknown reason, my system wants lots of oxygen to get me into the zone. The active cuddler seems to put the other in the zone first. The sense of time disappears, we stop talking. Then finally someone comes up for air, and it's 5 hours later but it seems like only a few minutes. For me, it seems to occur more easily with someone I've made a good connection with. Maybe it's the oxytocin, but it's almost like getting high without drugs. I love the cuddle high!!
Please share your experiences with the cuddle high.