Several years ago I heard Stan Lee speak at DragonCon in Atlanta, GA. During the Q&A session following his remarks, he was asked “who would win a fight” between between two Marvel characters. Mr. Lee’s response was “whichever one the illustrator wants to win.”
I want to modify that question and ask, what emotion / decision is the most powerful (which one would win if a person has mixed emotions / thoughts about a person or situation)?
Some emotions are very natural (fear, anger, love, etc.) and many emotions are progressive (in the words of Yoda, “fear leads to anger, anger leads to hate…”).
But I asked the question the way I did because of my favorite Winston Churchill quote, “Fear is a reaction, Courage is a decision.”
My personal answer to the question is “Forgiveness” which is more of a decision than an emotion. However, Forgiveness has the ability to calm fears, release anger, and promote healing. What do you think is most powerful and why?