Does Anyone Else Feel Lonely?

I sure do. I want to know I’m not alone in this. Most of the time I feel like I hardly have anyone to talk to or vent to. I’m going through some difficulties and stress right now, and feel like I need to spill out what’s bothering me. I need to have a good cry as well while being hugged tight. I’m trying not to cry now but the tears are escaping anyway. Anyways, I’m sorry for sounding depressing and going on a tangent, but does anyone else feel incredibly lonely?

CuddleDuncan

Yes.

Not as much as I used to. Partly thanks to a website I found ... what was that name again .... oh yes, Cuddle Comfort, that was it!

And for what it's worth, it's fine to spill it all out here if you want to. You won't be the the first. You might be surprised at how many people have had similar or relatable experiences. Good surprised, I mean good surprised.

munkg

Yo homie, im always around if you need to vent 🤗

cuddles_ndream

huggzzz 🫂 🌌

@CuddleDuncan you have a point. Every human being on this planet is going through something, and it feels good to talk about what’s bothering us and relate to others who are going through the same thing. It’s a good way to know that we’re not alone.

@munkg you know what it is homie. I messaged you on WhatsApp so we can talk more when you get a chance 🇵🇷🇲🇽

@cuddles_ndream hugs back and releases the tears I have a compliment for you too. I’ve seen your posts and comments on these forums and you seem like a real sweetheart.

cuddles_ndream

Thank you cariño

desiindian50

You are definitely not alone. I too feel lonely quite often. I do have a few friends and I talk to them once a month or so and in case of emergency I can reach out. But on a regular day to day basis I am a loner. I often read these threads but this is the first one I am commenting on. I feel I don't have anything worthwhile to share. Nowadays I am following some of the eastern spiritual teachings and it helps. But I still crave the human touch once in a while. Very reason I am here. I am yet to cuddle. Wasn't sure it's right for me. I won't know without trying, so today i scheduled one for next weekend. I am hoping it will help me. Take care and happy 🫂

@cuddles_ndream de nada. Tal vez puedo visitar Nueva York en el futuro próximo. Nunca he estado antes.

@desiindian50 I would cuddle you in a heartbeat if I were close by. Human touch is so magical. I wish you the best and maybe one day our paths will cross 🤗🫂

robroo

@Emerald20772 Yes I feel the same way. Since my mom's passing I don't have anyone to talk or vent to anymore. You can message me anytime if you need to vent. You won't be bothering me at all. Hugs

I definitely know this feeling. I've been feeling it quite a bit myself lately.

cuddles_ndream

@Emerald20772 de donde eres? Y adonde has ido… es posible que te enamores con nueva york, y es posible que lo odies… there is no in between lol

Any time my daughter is not here, I am cavernously lonely.

@cuddles_ndream Soy de Maryland. No muy lejos de DC. I could get to New York in about 3 1/2 hours. Manhattan is the number one spot I want to see and of course try authentic NY style pizza 🍕😋

cuddles_ndream

Cuando hagas planes me dejas saber ☺️ Pizza is on me 🍕😋 lol I went to Baltimore when I was 23 … (wow time flies lol) y para dc for a trip in Junior high … aweome time!

@cuddles_ndream i will let you know for sure when I visit. Espero que es muy pronto

cuddles_ndream

🥂☺️

achetocuddle

@Emerald20772 Talking to @cuddles_ndream will definitely brighten things up for you. I have been as lonely as you and you sure didn't go on a tangent in your message Your profile is great and so interesting. Don't be hogging cuddles_ndream cause I like to talk to him too. Lol. I hope you are feeling better than when you started the thread. Either way, you can keep talking to us in this thread. Someone will probably respond pretty often.

achetocuddle

@desiindian50 I get that you and some others feel like that they have nothing worthwhile to share, but I hate to hear that. Your first post here is expressive and well-written, so you may have things to offer you just have not thought of yet.
So glad you have a cuddle scheduled!

cuddles_ndream

@achetocuddle you always know how to put a smile on my face you really do!!!! 🫂 🫂 🫂 I wonder why they decided to make Tennessee soo far 🥺💙

achetocuddle

@cuddles_ndream Yeah! Why did they make Tennessee so far? And what am I doing in this humid oven anyway?
And I was not kidding about @Emerald20772 hogging you! ha ha ha ha ha ( Insert cracking myself up emoji here.)

desiindian50

@achetocuddle , @Emerald20772 Thank you 😊

cuddles_ndream

@achetocuddle i mean …. They could’ve Atleast made it where Pennsylvania is 🤪 ….

It was actually kinda cold these past 2 days here … it finally warmed up today, how is it in the winter time there?

& lol 😂

Lithellyl

Yes and no

I mean I have people I talk to online and in person but none of the local ones are cuddlers so what I miss is that tactile physical contact

CharlieBear

Yeah, I feel the same. I keep trying to type something but end up deleting it.

RadiantHugs

I feel that way at times - in fact I felt like that just yesterday - and I was with a lot of friends. Sometimes having people to talk to isn't automatically enough - as they have stuff which needs attention too. I've found that I have a tendency to numb my sadness so it builds up and I only feel it when it becomes overwhelming and some trigger event makes it all come out at once. Like yesterday - someone did something to me which was not nice, and I chose to say nothing - but it kept bothering me for hours later that I didn't speak up. Then it suddenly triggered this huge feeling of sadness all at once - and I did not want to be around anyone. It isn't fun when it happens!

achetocuddle

How are you today @Emerald20772 ? I hope you slept well. I and others would like to hear from you when you feel like it.

@achetocuddle I am feeling a little better today, thank you for asking. I feel more at peace today. It’s a beautiful day here, so I’m going to get out and enjoy the nice day.

AryaMak

I do feel lonely too, main reason for cuddling is I long for connections, everything seems much brighter with people around…I am here for ya if ever wanna text or talk, virtual cuddles too 🤗🥰I think it’s something universal nowadays, everyone seem dissociated from others,,,we are destroying our humanity by being distant! Alas!

achetocuddle

@bigbeauty So true.

elfdog21

Definitely get lonely, especially while living alone. Whenever I feel this way I try and force myself to do something I enjoy. Whether it's a good cuddle session, a simple message to an old friend, or taking my nieces to the movies. Its hard out there. I don't know many of you, but my mailbox is always open.