Hey. New professional cuddler here. I'm curious, how long do you typically engage in chatting with someone before scheduling a first cuddle session with a crew client?
It differs depending on you and your cuddler. Take the right amount of time you need to feel safe, for your cuddler to feel safe and make sure boundaries are explained.
Its totally up to you. It depends on how well you want to know a potential client before meeting them in person. But keep in mind, some guys will waste your time and chat with you for weeks without ever actually scheduling a session.
@Melancholy - Which I never understood. Just participate in the forums if you want to talk to people without the expectations of spending money.
@Mike403 Most people I talk to don't participate in the forums.
My apologies to OP. My spoiler feature is not working correctly today....
@Melancholy you bring up a great point about participation in the forums by members here.
I guess I am a "regular" contributor to forum discussions here on CC. I think we as forum contributors sometimes don't remember there are 100,000 plus members on CC. My best guess is maybe less than a 1000 post on forum. These are just numbers I am pulling out of thin air! ( @respectful where are you? lol )
I have conversations with many members who have never posted or even bother to read the forums. Asking them why and they simply have ZERO interest! None whatsoever. These are super super people but they don't have time and or interest in the forums at all. I know when I joined I barely contributed to the forums. I have never fully understood contributing to the forums = cuddling success. I don't think its too much of a reach to argue that for some people their forum contributions = disaster here. ( see banhammer)
Point being, IMO I think forum postings are just another tool in our cuddling toolbox that's there if it works for you. But it isn't for everyone here which is obvious I think. So many people don't post here and by all definitions are successful on CC.
@OhioMike spot on.
@Mike403 you're basically right of course. My theories include, it's an attention/ego thing: I made the pretty girl write to ME.
I just signed up to be a pro cuddler is your any training that’s required and what does the fee to besides take money out of my bank account how does that help get me clients?
I'm confused @Cutelarry .. you signed up to be a pro without knowing if there are any requirements and without doing any research?
As many will suggest, reading the forums will help you understand and give you an idea, specially the Professional section.
@Cutelarry Don't hijack someone else's thread to ask your own unrelated question. Better yet, don't ask this question at all, as there is abundant information already on the forums about male pro cuddlers.