"Here on business" & out-of-staters who ask for sessions?

SunsetSnuggles

Hey girls!

I get quite a few messages from people who say they are in my town "for awhile" on business, but can't say for how long, as well as messages from people in other countries or states nowhere near me, who ask to schedule an in-person cuddle.

What is the deal with these?

And no, I am not talking about people who genuinely travel for business and know how to adjust their location as such, and list travel dates openly. The travel isn't the suspicious part, it's that they are super vague on how long they're supposed to be there, and are very evasive.

I even had one who said he was leaving the state, then three weeks later messaged saying he was still there. Are these locals trying to keep a low profile? I just don't get it.

Thanks, peeps!

~ Sunset Snuggles

CuddleDuncan

I do know that some are fantasists. They are not close to you, and make various claims so that they can imagine that they would meet you. They might even go so far as to arrange a meeting, but when you turned up you would find that they had blocked you. Because they are not there and were never going to be there. They often get angry when pressed for details because you are not colluding in creating the fantasy. Also there are no details, obviously.

(I was PM'd about this by an enthusiast woman only this morning. She has been unexpected blocked by somebody who she had been chatting to and who was allegedly coming to her area on business. She had asked him for some kind of detail.)

Real travelling types are open and specific. Sometimes the dates or which hotel they are staying at are unknown or change (which is normal for all kinds of trips) but the essence of what's going on is perfectly clear.

Babichev

Some of them are scammers. Some are time wasters.

TheFunCartel

Depends on what they do. Project based workers (construction, IT, Architects, project managers) have a projected amount of time they will be at a location but those plans often go awry. Wildfire fighters get delayed a ton (just ran into them a few weeks ago in Fresno). Heck I am highly scheduled professional and I have been asked a couple of times to fire someone because I was in their area and do their appointments.

MorganMont81

I have had some sessions with the “Here for business” type people. Very genuine people and never pushed any boundaries. They usually tell you exactly when and where they will be down to the hotel. There are a few out of state requests, that after some time through messaging, reveal themselves and their intent. Just have to do thorough screening. 🤗🌸🦋

Melancholy

I think its fine for someone visiting from out of town to request a cuddle session. But what seems shady to me is if they don't seem to know when they will be in town and for how long. That is odd. Are they vagrants?? lol
If they can't tell you when they can schedule a session with you I would avoid them...cause something is off

MorganMont81

Agreed @Melancholy That would be a red flag