It has recently come to my attention that I am naturally distrustful and afraid of anyone who genuinely wants to spend time with me . The moment anyone wants me around, it's like my mind can't conceivably understand.
I can't help but turn every effort someone makes to get close to me into a threat to my wellbeing. Is this person manipulating me? Are they trying to get something out of me? How are they going to hurt me?
The worst part is that while I can consciously tell myself why it doesn't make any sense for me to think like this, especially when it's in hindsight, it doesn't do me any good. There will always be that nagging feeling in the back of my mind that people only want to get close to me in order to hurt me. So I don't let anyone ever get close to me. And if I did, I think I'd only inevitably end up either hurting myself or them with this toxic mindset I can't seem to get rid of.
But If pay someone to spend time with me, then I don't have to stress myself out with trying to understand what their motive for wanting to be around me is. I can safely tell myself that the reason is money, and only money. I am so messed up, and I'm not even sure how I ended up like this