Hi all:
So in the past week, two of the three pro cuddlers I have seen (in my relatively small town, and in my ~6 months on CC) have deactivated their accounts. And one new local enthusiast cuddler, who I'd traded a couple of messages with, has deleted her account.
This is making me a little paranoid -- are they leaving because of ME? Logically, I know it isn't. I've texted with one of the pros (who I hadn't been in touch with for a month or so), and she's told me she's just taking a break from new clients, but she was happy to hear from me and we could still have a session. The other pro has gone radio silent, so I'm a bit more concerned about her. She and I had been texting regularly since our first appointment, had made tentative plans for the next one, but then she stopped answering texts and shortly thereafter deactivated her account.
The enthusiast told me she was new to the site, just looking around and figuring out how everything works. I'm sure plenty of people create accounts and then delete them in the first week, if they find CC isn't for them.
So again, logically -- I know I'm not the center of the universe (!!) and I know this is just a weird coincidence that has nothing to do with me. But the fact that this all happened in the same week is super odd.
Curious: do there tend to be more deactivations around this time of year, as people get busy for the holidays? Or is this just a weird quirk, and I should stop trying to find meaning?