I’m curious to hear the perspectives of both cuddlers and pros about the topic of whether a session should be mutually enjoyable and enriching to the client and the pro. I’ve had multiple cuddlers mention that they want me to get something out of the session besides financial compensation. I mentioned this to my therapist (yay, for mental health!) and she warned me that it’s dangerous for a provider to get anything emotionally out of a session with a client, at least in the mental health field. I’ve had a few clients so far whose company I’ve enjoyed so much that I would seriously consider not charging them for sessions if I weren’t in a serious relationship. Is this a problem?
Cuddlers: do you want your pro to enjoy the session or be entirely focused on your needs and desires?
Pros: do you feel uncomfortable enjoying sessions with certain clients? How do you know when you’ve become too emotionally invested?