What makes you want to click on someone’s profile? 📖
An enticing pic, or if they post something in the forums that intrigues me.
In order of likelihood: 1. They visited my profile. 2. Their picture. 3. Something interesting (or controversial) they said in a discussion.
Different factors come into play when I click on a profile. Presentation, meaning their "name", picture if they have one, location and information. What brings me back is Their 'About Me' statement. Sometimes I feel like giving a well deserved compliment. I can't say that I've clicked a profile on a whim but perhaps I have. It's great that there is something here for everyone.
Their smile and their eyes, I will then read their profile. I have seen many pictures where to me they look mad and or stressed out, maybe it’s just their normal look, not sure. Many times I will read there profiles several times before reaching out to them. I’m still a little nervous reaching out but not nearly as bad as I was the first few times.
Pic, location, handle, visited me
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A consistent pattern of kindness on the message board.
~ Sunset Snuggles
Whenever I am going to a certain area I click on everyone who has been on in the last two weeks because profiles are like a box of chocolates, you never know what you’ll get. If I put stipulations on which profiles I look at then I would have missed out on a ton of wonderful people that I have met.
Cheesy lines are pure gold but you know I tend to try to look at everybody's just because you know some people just don't even have profile pictures I mean not that it matters but if they have you know something in their bio you have some kind of idea of preference
@JusticeJane love the list! 📝
@LucyFurr My lines are soo cheesy, that you would think I ate a bunch of Mozzarella sticks 🤪
@FunCartel
@SunsetSnuggles Love it 🌌
@craM Yusss!
@waynewv i agree … I tend to do the same, but with their expressions & communication on the forum / profile ect : )
@WEK Yusss to all of it.
@homeboy lol yes.
@PrettyLuv those are the 2 things that gravitates me the most as well.
All roads lead to poops
Usually I’m attracted to look at a profile when the gal has a smile or a pleasant and kind look on their face. A person who can smile usually has a pleasant heart. A good heart makes it easier for me to have a connection.
I’m attracted by a very strong magnet.
They are recently active does it for me. Hard to set up a cuddle with someone who has not been on for months.
Speaking of magnets,I have a fetish for them. I am not sure why. I just find them attractive.
I hope I don’t get banned for coming clean about this, but there is one particular profile I’ve looked at a lot of times. Not every time I visit the site, but quite often. When I look at it, I wonder if others react the way I do. I am familiar with the photos and although I have my favorites, at this point I don’t spend time staring at them. I do think about them though. On the other hand, I contemplate the text big time. I don’t know how many times I’ve read it! I really need to leave this profile alone and get on with my life.
As you probably guessed, the profile that I described being gravitated to is my own.
I don't care about nice. I want to know if they're real. Are they kind? That's the initial question.
Sincerity in their smile.
@JusticeJane 🎯
Pictures I feel like some ppl are ashamed.... because they cuddle I have alot of pics on here and I was a enthusiast before a pro I really hate when ppl can't meet you halfway and show themselves also if they actually wrote something in there bio ....I'm human so please show me you're not a bot also having karma is great as well if I seen you interacted with others I'm less worried (basically pic and bio and karma are key)
Mostly comments on threads, they visited mine, they left karma for someone seeking to meet with me.
I’ll look around more if they have pics and about section or good karma
Overall presentation of their profile. The time and effort they put into it.
If they have a pic of their face, kind eyes. Beyond that a fairly thorough profile that answers:
What they hope to get out of the cuddle dynamic and preferences therein.
Some information about hobbies they have, their personality, etc. are also nice. Or at least a decent joke lol
I wonder why so many people seem to be saying that will open a profile if they like what it says in the profile. Do you all have crystal balls?
@GreatHornedOwl I do sometimes get what I call "psychic hits" lol
Hard to say . People can disguise themselves through words to essentially create an illusion of being something they're not. Sometimes it's a crap shoot, and you just have to take a chance and say hello.
A well put together, professional profile is a plus. I look for sincere providers who are marketing what the community is for and not a side hustle.
If I view a profile and the owner reaches out with a thank you I feel they are more likely to be sincere 🌻
Any profile pic where someone is holding a fish