Yeah, I know, guys aren't supposed to talk about their emotions, but I have nobody else so, here goes...
I came here to CC because I needed some sort of human connection. I never had much luck dating. I've been used, cheated on and laughed at to my face for having the audacity to evwn ask a woman to a local carnival. I've been told multiple times to my face that I'm just not enough. I mean, I know words are just words, but after the third time or so ya start to maybe think they may be true.
I don't get it. I know I'm not a model, but I would hope that I look at least decent enough for someone out there to find me attractive.
I've applied myself to as many passions as I could: I'm a multi-instrumentalist, vocalist, published author, award winning poet, abstract artist etc. etc.
I spent three and a half years volunteering in the community through Americorps.
I'm not lazy. I love kids. I was licensed and taught preschool in two states and I currently work with middle schoolers.
I don't say any of this from a point of pride...only for reference....
What am I doing wrong?
Even here on CC I'm ghosted and I'm canceled on. I get that life happens, and that's cool, but so many cancelations lately and just no responses. I know this is all just platonic here but It just hurts a little more given my past.
This is already a book...but, I guess what I'm asking is, do any of you see something wrong with me? Honestly?
I can't fix it if I don't know about it.
Please, be brutally honest...
Now, I'm gonna post this before I chicken out and delete it 🤦♂️