Female enthusiasts trynna charge men

jabraham96jabraham96
edited February 2023 in General

Tell me why I hit up a female enthusiast for a cuddle meet up and she talked about scheduling. When I questioned her about scheduling and asked her if she was planning on making me pay. She blocked me immediately. What’s good with these enthusiasts trynna charge for cuddle meet ups like they’re professionals LMFAO?

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  • jabraham96jabraham96
    edited February 2023

    Removed private conversation images [netrunner]

  • [Deleted User]stanleyjacobs (deleted user)

    Sounds like it could have come across like a proposition/innuendo towards more than a normal snug session, may not have gone that way if you said nothing since it is implied that no money is changing hands.

  • SoftHairForDaysSoftHairForDays
    edited February 2023

    Personal conversations aren't allowed to be posted to the forum. Expect that this will be removed at some point when the mods get to it.

    She didn't say anything about charging, just scheduling. I schedule lots of things, but there's not necessarily money involved.

  • SunsetSnugglesSunsetSnuggles
    edited February 2023

    Hey there, a few things...

    For one, if anyone legitimately does ask for money and they don't have a Pro tag and aren't scheduling through the site, report them and don't pay a dime.

    Two, I know you're frustrated but you're not allowed to post private conversations here. You should delete those screenshots, or the mods will step in and do it for you.

    Three, it seems to me that she just felt you were pushy. People can be block-happy sometimes, and I don't believe you have cause to claim she was trying to charge you. "Scheduling", while it could sound professional like a Pro, can also simply mean getting two peoples' schedules to work.

    I suggest being a little more easy-going, in the future, and hopefully you won't meet trigger-happy Pro's.

    ~ Sunset Snuggles

  • quietman775quietman775
    edited February 2023

    Sounds like miscommunication to me. I read "not accepting anyone to me" as "I do not host." That's all I gathered --- that she wanted to come to you, not vice-versa. Now, I may or may not be reading her intent correctly. But if I had been in your shoes, I would have asked her to clarify what she meant without sounding accusatory. She might have blocked you because your tone struck her as hostile and/or accusatory. She may, in fact, be an untagged pro, but we can't tell from this exchange.

    That said, the Mods are likely to delete your post, or at least edit it. It's against TOS to post screenshots of private messages without the other person's consent.

  • CuddleWhoCuddleWho

    She said not one word about payment. You brought that up, and you framed it as an accusation, for no apparent reason. What in the world did you think would happen after your last message?

  • netrunnernetrunner Mod

    @jabraham96 this is not how to go about handling this situation. Go to their profile and use the Report option to flag them as an Untagged Pro and if the conversation took place outside the site include screenshots with the report for us to reference to address this. Coming to the forums to complain about it isn't acceptable. This thread is being locked.

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