After more experience and responses here I have come to see that a lack of response can be the best option. I've seen honest and respectful approaches being met with such venom and hostility that one could only conclude that it is born of hatred. Couple that with the new person being an apparent enthusiast that is intent on extracting money. Yeah, no response would have been better. Now I should thank her for my coming to appreciate being ignored.
@1_teddybear Are you saying you get responses from messages you send to prospective cuddlers that are hostile and venomous? I am asking because I have not experienced that. I have been given a not interested, or a haughty this is not how I like my messages done (expecting one to be a mind reader), but never venomous. Just curious.
@BoomerSpooner perhaps I have been unlucky. I can DM you my original introduction. Perhaps something I was unaware of was involved.
Yeah please message me. You never know I might be able to offer advice even if it is along the lines of “it’s them, not you”.