My spouse knows but I have kids in the house so I can travel or meet in public need a few chats before number exchange I am a little picky but not too bad def video chat before any meeting so you know what I look like in person instead of profile pics(I normally wear no makeup) do not be shy also so not be rude put a little effort in. If you do not mind a few chats and to actually meet maybe even tonight please send a message I will respond as best I can thank you.