@4bearhugs 😂.
Well in fairness the OP did say “we have to be better…” so assuming OP is including themselves there 🤔
@carrieanne Hi! No as a pro, I did not solicit enthusiasts. Given the rarity of a male pro getting a paid booking, I was referring to my personal experiences of a male pro soliciting a female pro for a session. When you are single and haven’t been in a relationship in a long time, we also have the same human touch needs. Numerous experiences of someone responding, engaging in a discussion, the female pro asking a question to nail down time and date say for tomorrow, responding to them within 5 minutes and them not responding for 3 days.
Glad to see you back, @araysd 😊 Regardless of who it’s from. Pro or Enthusiast, I always respond pretty quickly. I think if they made the effort to contact me, I would return the same, but that’s the polite etiquette that I was raised with. I know things are different now - but I still don’t see a need for rudeness ever. When I get inappropriate messages, or the ones who can’t put together a complete sentence and/or who want the same-day booking. Who makes stupid demands - I could go on…. For those - I will still answer, but they probably aren’t going to like what I have to say. It’s a fun opportunity for me to let them know exactly what I think of their ‘little boy with no self-control’ behavior. Fortunately, 99% of the messages I get are from great guys.