Do you prefer deep talks or watching a movie during cuddling>?
Either one, though I have a hard time starting and leading a conversation, so perhaps talking if they prompt me, otherwise movie or silence.
Hmm...what would be your go to movie?
I prefer talking vs watching a movie bc I’ve found some ppl get so immersed into the movie or show that I end up feeling more alone with them there.
@snuggzz great point. I understand that completely. Are you a conversation starter or do you prefer the person to lead?
I can't think of a go to movie lol. I've only had something playing a few times during cuddling. Once I think was moon knight on disney plus then another time was a horror netflix show picked by the other person, and then I think Gotham before it was removed from netflix.
@Kellyshir Either one works for me. I don’t mind taking the lead in conversations or letting them. Sometimes I do just like to cuddle in silence and be in the moment but with some music in the background. Just depends in the vibe.
How about you?
Cuddling on a rainy morning or afternoon are my very favorite. Living in Texas where it’s brutally hot in the summer, I’m always wishing for rainy (not torrential) days
@snuggzz yes, it always depend on the vibe. I am a sucker for being led in conversations because almost always I feel I am the leader in them lol. So when someone wants to start it I feel a since of relief.haha
@carrieanne I’m in San Antonio and it’s 102° with thunderstorms. Hot and rainy. I want to die. Lol
@carrieanne yesss & ugh, I've been yearning to move to Texas. I'm in Philly & rain has been on the forecast for the rest of the week.
@snuggzz i feel your pain! Every summer I wonder why I live here. But then I remember in the winter! We had a downpour today for about an hour. Then the hot sun was back immediately, more humid than ever! Waiting for October!
@Kellyshir There’s a lot to love about Dallas and especially winter. But summer can be tough. I actually love winter and miss snow but not to the extreme.
Yes, even better if you have a metal roof. I have a sound machine at home and one in both of my RVs, that way I never forget to put it in the even. I also have my WI-Fi tv on a Utube channel with rain or creek sounds.
Talking is fine, silence is good too.
Pull up a big cozy chair next to the window and watch the rain whilst cuddling. Maybe we can have a conversation about why we like it so much. :-D
Usually talking but once we watched a Disney movie and it was really nice friend hang out vibes! So maybe if your gona watch a movie have it be a feel good movie youv both seen so you don't have to play super close attention to.
The Princess Bride could be fun, until I was compelled to re-enact THE sword fight scene, and ended up breaking someone’s coffee table…
Oh my gosh, I had an awesome cuddle outdoors in a thunderstorm, last night! Definitely a memorable experience. Talk about atmosphere! ⛈️
As for movie cuddles vs. deep talk cuddles, I always prefer the latter, as my top Love Language is Quality Time.
~ Sunset Snuggles
I'd worry about a person if they DIDN'T act out THE sword fight!!!
And yes, there is NOTHING better than rain on a metal roof, now I'm missing our old farm.
@sillysassy, @safensecure4u2 and I certainly love our rainy cuddles, as long as we're not IN THE RAIN.
I can get bored watching a movie. I don't get bored having a conversation.
Rainy days are the best days to be lazy. Add cuddling to that and it’s the perfect day
Says everybody
The thunderstorms in Colorado last couple days definitely adds to my cuddling excitement and experience lol 😆
@MissAdventurous - I hear that concert goers at Red Rocks were injured by golf ball sized hail. Some had to be taken to the hospital.
@Mike403 oh no 😮😮 that's awful for the concert goers. Sorry to hear there were injuries.
@Mike403
Yeah, in Colorado Springs the hail is a serious concern when it happens.