@CuddleDuncan - For somebody who said he doesn't check the pro forums, he certainly was checking it a lot to argue with us. I don't know what's up with that.
@Noumenal - I would normally just ignore your comments and move on but I really feel compelled to point out a couple of facts…
1) @AllAboutSoul @cuddlefaery and @Mike403 (as well as myself) have all been around here much longer than you. That doesn’t automatically make us right or make our opinions more valuable but it does mean we have a MUCH better understanding of this site, the forums, and apparently the terms of service than you do.
2) I did not take anything the members above said as an attack on you, they simply expressed disagreement with you. There is a big difference between the two.
3) @AllAboutSoul was 100% correct about disrespect being a red flag. Take the time to read threads about what makes women on this site feel comfortable and uncomfortable meeting a man from this site. Most women will read you profile, look at your photos, AND read your posts in the forums looking for any red flags that you might not treat them with respect. The first hint of a red flag and you are going to have a very lonely (and probably brief) experience on this site. She was actually doing you a favor by trying to make you aware of how you came across as disrespectful in your comment to the mods.
4) Blasting established members of this site, especially those who are active on the forums, by accusing them of gaslighting, being passive aggressive, and “having privilege” is not a good look for anyone, especially someone new to site.
In summary, I encourage you to do some serious self reflection before you respond to me or anyone else on this thread. I’ve got thick skin, my blood pressure will not rise and I will not lose a minute of sleep tonight no matter how you respond to me but for your own sake, please be careful with your responses. Many more people read these forums than post in the forums.
Getting upset and lashing out at us will only cause you self inflicted harm as potential cuddle partners draw their own conclusions about you.
I wonder what a special platinum card would look like …
Disrespect is a major red flag in this type of business. Now potential cuddlers are going to think you'll disrespect them if they say or do something you don't like. Allowing somebody into their personal space makes them feel very vulnerable and they want to make sure they going to be safe with the person they are with.
I feel like I know @Mike403 enough to say he is definitely trying to help.
@OhioMike ok now I want one of those 😂💖
@cuddlefaery 😂. Who doesn’t? Lol. @Shake49 is really stingy passing them out and I thought him and I were friends ! 🤣
@OhioMike 😂 remind me to give you one next time
@Noumenal If a thread falls under a certain topic, then it is the mods responsibility to move the post to that topic. If someone were to create a thread titled "come cuddle me", then that would naturally fall under Cuddle Requests. We don't ask the OP for input on that particular matter, it is never meant to cause offense or undermine them. It's simply the way we organize the forum.
Seems I missed alot. Just by reading page one alone, I see this thread has no use in staying up. Locking it for now.