@Umoja - I’ve cuddled with 4 people I first met via the forums (2 pros and 2 enthusiasts). Over the past 2 years I’ve cuddled with over 20 cuddlers (roughly 2/3 were pros and 1/3 were enthusiasts) but most don’t participate on the forums.
Um... @JohnR1972 ~ Could you rub your AMAZING CUDDLE SUCCESS in a little harder?? lol You DO know...that you're not that far from me, and that there's a road that connects our locations? Keep playin'.... He don't even know who he's messin' with! lol
@Umoja - LOL, I am optimistic we will meet in the near future 😊
I enjoy the forums, because of the socializing that they provide when you're not able to socialize in person with one another.😊
Since, many that I socialize with on the forums are always located in another city, another state or even another country...My answer is NO! I DO NOT USE THE FORUMS FOR CUDDLE PARTNER SEEKING PURPOSES!😐
No, I enjoy the forums for socializing and goofing off with other members only. 😁
I prefer meeting those who haven’t interacted in the forums - free of perception or misconceptions, preconceived notions - a clean slate. Looks could be deceiving anyway. I rather just start fresh
@PrettyLuv I agree. I have met with people from the forums in the past but I admit when I go to different areas of the country I avoid people from the forums. The reason is the same as yours—I want a session without any previous history good, bad or indifferent.
I’ve cuddled a mix of people, some post on the forum, some do not post, and some just read it. Some people may just not have the extra time to use the forum, or do not care to. Participation in the forum, or lack thereof, is not a dealbreaker to me at all.
Very Valuable! I love the forums, I’ve come across posts today alone ranging from “Why do people have pics with their tongues out”, to “let’s talk Disney “, & “wine or whiskey 🥃 🍷” 😅 I mean, these are all great conversation starters, its like one big gathering with people from all over the country (& the world at that) with all types of views and experiences. And then we get to see people’s opinions, point of views, and strong convictions which are all cool for the most part … The forum is an amazing escape for sure.
As far as do the forums have an impact on who I choose to cuddle, no … I just love the forum, although there are times that I gravitate towards some members , could be the way they come off & express themselves , could be a nice playlist of music they love which I love myself , maybe their pics or their mind - intelligence (I would feel like if we cuddled we would talk and I’ll see the world through their eyes in a very comfortable setting … 99% of the time I don’t voice it or would say it, and 1% of the time I do.
The cuddle session I experienced had nothing to do with the forums. I use the forums as a way to spread positivity. I feel like I have meet some really good people in the forums.
I use the forums as a way to spread positivity.
@Jova114 And you do a wonderful job at doing that. I admire that despite your struggles, you are kind to everyone. You are a good man @Jova114.
Aww shucks @BoomerSpooner Thank you so much! That means a lot. 🤗
Definitely good to learn a lot from these forums - both about users directly and tips for the vetting process in general.