Any tips for new cuddlers? I just finished my first session and everything went well but I want to make sure the awkwardness isn't present during my next session. Any tips? πβ¨οΈ
I just want to put a reminder here that you need to be approved as a pro before you can have sessions and charge. Once youβre approved and have a pink P on your profile (you can see mine as an example) then you are able to charge.
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@Sheena123 Thanks for the reminder! π I feel the need to further explain my comment and request for advice. I'm completely new to the cuddler world; the booking I referred to comes from Cuddle Companions not Cuddle comforts. When I noted that on this site you can actually create a discussion post, I decided to ask for tips on ways I could make my sessions less awkward in the beginnings.
@Peaches329 ah gotcha ππ»ππ» What helps me is meeting them in a public space like a coffee shop, to just chat and get to know them. Some pros charge for that time and others donβt.
I keep it as a free Ice breaker. I feel having a normal conversation helps to weed out the guys that could be potential creeps (hopefully) and for the cuddlers that are a bit more nervous, it eases them a bit
@Sheena123 Thank you for those tips! If you don't mind im going to steal that idea of meeting for a quick chat somewhere public beforehand; For safety as well as comfortability!
@Peaches329 go for it! π and as soon as youβre approved here as a pro, and you have questions, you can message me any time ππ
What helps me is meeting them in a public space like a coffee shop, to just chat and get to know them. Some pros charge for that time and others donβt.
This is such a great tip. It's not always feasible (if meeting a cuddler while traveling or whatever). But the best connection I've had with a pro cuddler is with someone I met for a couple of drinks a few weeks before our first cuddle session. She could see that I (probably) wasn't a creep; I got all the first-time nervousness out of the way before the cuddling.
@WiserGuy3000 definitely a meet is a great idea when possible!