Hi fellow cuddlers! I had something unusual occur and wanted to get some thoughts...
I'm going out of town next week and was looking for a cuddle buddy so I sent a message to someone. Several days later, they sent a reply that they were interested. So I sent a message to find out their schedule and to get a sense of how they like to cuddle and within an hour they deactivated or deleted their profile. I'm sure it's not unheard of but a little odd.
Now there are numerous reasons why this might happen:
- Maybe they were on the fence about cuddling with people they don't know and when we started nailing down details, they decided it just wasn't for them so they abruptly deleted their account. (I'm sure it happens and this seems like the most plausible explanation to me.)
- It was a scam/catfish of some type. Maybe they sent back an inappropriate reply that Cuddle Comfort automatically blocked and they got reprimanded by CC for the message so they deleted their account (seems unlikely as I would assume I would have gotten an email notification of a new message regardless, but I don't know how CC's moderation process works so it's possible I guess).
- Somehow they misread something I said and they decided to break off the chat and completely deactivate their account (it's possible although I'm 99% sure I didn't say anything that could be read as anything other than platonic and if that were the case, I'd expect them to block me, not delete their account, especially since I live far, far away from them and am just visiting their town for a few days).
I've attached the conversation (with their username and my personal info redacted). Am I missing something? Has anyone ever had someone deactivate/delete their account in the middle of a conversation? I've had conversations where the chat just kind of winds down of its own volition and nothing comes of a possible platonic connection, or one side simply loses interest (or had no initial interest) and "ghosts" the other, but not someone deleting their account out of the blue. In any event, I look forward to hearing some of your stories. Thanks everyone!