Hi there! I’m new here and just trying to figure things out. It’s an understatement to say that I have a complicated history with men and so I came here looking for extremely platonic cuddling. However, the only people to reach out to me have been men, which makes me very leery. Is that how this site works? Am I too cynical? Some messages seem eerily similar to hookup sites I’ve been on in the past. For example: “I’m interested. Do you travel? Or car cuddle?” Substitute the word sex for cuddle and it’s pretty much identical. Seemingly no interest in getting to know me. It would be one thing if these were pros because I’d feel safe. But these are just random dudes on the internet. Is it me?