Two bad experiences I had:
First was with a weirdo that 5 minutes in the cuddle changed his mind and told me “vibe is not there” then asked me to return his money 🤦♀️ I was surprised and I thought (then asked him) that if he was expecting intimacy? His answer was “no I can get that anywhere”, I didn’t believe that answer obviously but left anyway and I truly felt that he had anger issues and deep frustration. A bit unsafe 🧐
Second was with a dude who first invited me to dinner we ended up spending 2 hours (he only paid for dinner) then when we went to his place for a cuddle he started being touchy and I started removing his hand and he was saying “It’s not sexual I’m just trying to feel you” 😂
I then told him I had to go, when I got back home I received his text saying that he paid for an hour but got less than 40 minutes of actual cuddle time 🤦♀️
The nerves! I didn’t make him pay for my time even though we got to his place a half hour after the planned time and didn’t even make a scene for his crossing boundaries and he sent me that?
But anyway I guess my fear from reporting those types are:
1- retaliation by reporting me back for whatever bogus excuse
2- leaving me bad reviews in retaliation too
What would you do?