I want to understand the intent of ones cuddle needs so i can understand ones position in this world?
What do you mean the intent?
sorry just not understanding the overall question
This might not be what you meant but in general, you would want to discuss your own (and theirs) cuddle needs with your cuddle partner. Whether they are a Pro or an Enthusiast might change the dynamics. This discussion should be before you have a session.. Since it’s normally a personal discussion between two people, it’s not necessary to explain it all in a public forum. Unless maybe you want to go off on some philosophical tangent, then have at it by all means.
How to get started
@Daniel414 Someone will be along shortly with a whole mess of links for you to read and familiarize yourself with.
Go ahead and get the coffee started now.