Profile Visitors

How many visitors check out your profile daily? Any tips and or suggestions to make a profile more appealing?

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  • Number of visitors varies and is hard to tell since there's a limited number listed.

    The easiest ways to boost views are:

    • logging in/being actively online frequently as this pushes you onto the recently online list on the front page and bumps you up higher on people's lists if they are searching by online activity. Daily is ideal.
    • participating in the forums regularly. This will get you a lot of random views as people will want to see who is behind the comments/posts. It may not necessarily lead to more cuddles, but absolutely can lead towards more friends and longer-term connections that can lead towards cuddles. There's also a "Requests" forum where you can post ads searching for cuddle partners.
    • updating your profile pic. This helps encourage local viewers to check you out again.
    • viewing other people's profiles. Kinda a quid pro quo, you view me, I view you 🀣

    Overall, your profile looks fine to me. I think it is great that you have boundaries stated at the top, a well written description of what you're looking for, and multiple pics to give a sense of your personality. I love that you put your plants as your pets 🌿πŸͺ΄

  • [Deleted User]zerogone40 (deleted user)

    All of the above. I tried to be funny (sort of) in my profile. Also, I'll spend time just randomly jumping about from profile to profile, commenting on threads, send the odd message. Use everything the site has to offer. πŸ€”

  • I don't even know how much karma I have or recall what my about me section is, and probably have twenty something messages I haven't read or responded to (sorry I love y'all I'm just not good at that sometimes ) I do like to change pics from time to time , so usually check on all that stuff then like messages , friend requests, any new karma I might have etc cus I dont have profile set to alert me to all that jazz

  • I get barely one to two visitors per month. And that's usually from people heavy in the forums rather than local folks,

  • edited May 2024

    @Drop_the_Mike posted: "How many visitors check out your profile daily?"

    It varies greatly, with no apparent pattern. Sometimes my last view will be ten hours ago. Sometimes all 20 slots fill up in five hours. My activity remains fairly consistent, so it's a mystery why it fluctuates. But the amount of visitors I get isn't important to me; I check out the list sometimes because it's nice to connect with new people who might be too shy to message, or to see a friend viewing me and remember I owe them a PM.

    @Drop_the_Mike posted: "Any tips and or suggestions to make a profile more appealing?"

    There's really two separate questions, here.

    If you want more visitors to your profile, there are a few factors at play (assuming you fall within someone's search criteria):

    - Your profile picture
    - Your username

    - Whether or not you have enough Karma to get stars on your search result to set you apart from those with little or none
    - Your age
    - Your location

    The first two are in your control...choose wisely.

    The other three are not. (Or at least, fairly little.) You can try to arrange cuddles and hope or ask for Karma, but people can choose not to leave it (for a multitude of reasons). Your age should always be truthful. You can travel and add a second location for your destination.

    Point being, as far as search results, your profile picture and the username you choose are your most powerful tools and choices. My number one suggestion to you is to smile in your profile shot. 😊

    As far as the message board, you have less to work with (your posts don't show Karma stars, age, or location), but you have one massive addition that is under your control: The way you comport yourself; how you treat others, and how you express your thoughts. πŸ’»

    ~~~

    The second question is about making your profile, itself, more appealing.

    You began your profile with vaccination status; if that's extremely important to you, that's fine. It may or may not be to other people.

    Next up you have a hard boundary regarding no-shows. While this is perfectly reasonable and healthy, a warning is not a positive note to start your profile on.

    Further, you go into hygiene requirements. Again, great practice and understandable, but maybe not what you should lead with.

    Finally, you get to describing yourself. ✨️ Now you give off a completely different vibe to the above, where you had sounded very rigid and standoffish, and now you sound interesting, easy-going, and safe. You did a wonderful job describing yourself, here. πŸ’―

    My suggestion is to flip your profile on-end. Start with your description of yourself, and put your requirements at the bottom. When you get into the scheduling stage with someone, you can certainly double-check that they've read that part.

    (Believe me, even having it at the very top won't guarantee that they read it. My profile's very first words say that I'm an enthusiast who doesn't charge like a Pro, and I still get not only requests from guys trying to "book a cuddle", but even female Pro's messaging me asking me how I run my Pro business and wanting advice on being a Pro.)

    Hope this was helpful! I think you've got a lot of great stuff going for you, and with a tweak here and there, you'll be set up for even more success than your Karma clearly shows you've already had. 🀩

    ~ Sunset Snuggles

    πŸ¦„ Enthusiast 🏞 Travel Fiend 🐘 Animal Lover

  • I get anywhere from 8-20 in a 24 hour window. (could be more but you only see 20) The reason it fluctuates is because you've received exposure. Whether that's because someone searched your criteria, you were active in the forums, OR Cuddle Comfort used your image in an advertising campaign.

    Personally, I keep it light and loving without a lot of hard, angry warnings.
    Human connection is my jam and I want people to feel that. πŸ’œ
    The warning is in my jiu-jitsu chokehold πŸ˜‰

  • Well going to re-think my profile going by what @SunsetSnuggles says πŸ˜…

    I'm lucky if I get more than a few views a week, but I live a fair bit away from London where most cuddlers are based so it's understandable.

  • One trick re: location folks can try -

    If you live within driving distance of a major metropolitan area and are willing to drive there for cuddles, you can set it as your location or add it as your secondary. Just make sure to clarify in your profile so that logistics are made clear. It'll help you show up in more people's searches if they live in the city and can't/won't travel.

  • Oh noes someone looked at me. I’m calling Joey swoll.

  • @DaveFromSussex
    πŸ˜… You're saved as a Favorite, if that tells you anything. I read your profile over twice just now and don't see any of the points I mentioned, above. I think you're safe. 😜

    ~ Sunset Snuggles

    πŸ¦„ Enthusiast 🏞 Travel Fiend 🐘 Animal Lover

  • ^^Yay, good to know. Thanks :)

  • @DaveFromSussex
    🀭 No worries, you don't need my approval, mate. Just gave advice to the OP 'cause he specifically asked for it. 😊

    ~ Sunset Snuggles

    πŸ¦„ Enthusiast 🏞 Travel Fiend 🐘 Animal Lover

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