@g_w_t_w The way you say things is kind and besides, getting mad at someone for stating their experience would make no sense. I fully realize that some people would get mad anyway. It never occurred to me until listening to you that transitioning from pro to enthusiast could have quite a bit to it. And there are some guys who expect to make effort for you to enjoy the cuddle and want to.
@starrynitecuds I am blown away that anyone would think a cuddle they did not pay for would be all about them. I had no idea some people would think that. That is bizarre. I'm learning a lot.