I had a negative experience last night while cuddling and would
like to hear your thoughts on what happened.
I attended a free Saturday night summer concert in the park
sponsored by the city. I was cuddling with a woman I met through a Craiglist ad
had I posted. We were having a good time at the event sharing hugs, cuddling,
and dancing the night away. Our touch was completely “G-rated” in the sense
that we were fully clothed, refrained from kissing (no body fluids shared), and
did not touch or grope each other’s private parts. It was the first time we had
met in person but it felt natural to hold hands, embrace each other, and spoon.
For a few minutes, we decided to experiment with laying on top of each other
just because we wanted to see what it would feel like. It was all in good fun.
We were situated in the middle of the audience sitting on a
picnic blanket when somebody came up to us and expressed her disapproval of our
behavior. At first, I thought she was joking but she complained about how we
should “save it for the bedroom” so her kids would not see what we were doing.
I was dumbfounded by what I was hearing.
In my humble opinion, we live in a world in which there is
way too much violence, hate, and intolerance. If a man and a woman are in a
public park enjoying each other in physical but nonsexual ways, I think we
could use more of this in our communities. We were not breaking any laws and we
were minding our own business. But this encounter reminds me of how many people
(Americans in particular?) are uncomfortable with public displays of affection.
Have any of you had similar encounters while cuddling and
sharing physical touch in public?