Fluffy and cuddly

I’ve noticed that they don’t have any dark skin or plus size people as professional cuddlers. Representation matters. Me and all my friends that are plus size always here from people how good we smell. How our energy is warm, inviting, safe, protective, and feels like home. The amount of messages I get on dating sites from people of all genders asking me to cuddle with them and a platonic way is why I decided to apply to become a professional cuddler. They don’t give a reason as to why certain people are approved while others are denied. However, it doesn’t take a rocket scientist to see why the site has a particular type of person that they approve. It’s not because other ethnicities, or bigger people aren’t applying to become professional cuddlers. It’s because we don’t ever get approved. Giving a reason why someone is denied would mean they would have to acknowledge their discriminatory selection process when it comes to approving people.

Comments

  • Are you saying that you applied to be a pro-cuddler on this site but your application was denied?

  • I’ve noticed that they don’t have any dark skin or plus size people as professional cuddlers.

    Brand new here and already playing the -ism card. That's nice.

  • I've seen pros with dark skin and/or overweight/curvy. I've seen people approved to be pros that didn't entirely understand what cuddling was. This was obvious by their about me section or forum comments.

  • Maybe she got her reason on her invitation to banned camp.

  • Just... An odd post. I'm very much a plus size/extra curvy/fluffy/fat - however you want to phrase it... I'm that. And also a pro. I'm also not cool with the idea that one body type is universally 'better' to cuddle than another. And dating sites are absolutely not a great training idea for cuddling. 🤷‍♀️🤣😬

  • To the OP, anecdotal experience is not statistically significant.

  • And dating sites are absolutely not a great training idea for cuddling. 🤷‍♀️🤣😬

    👍👍👍

    @PinkMallo I agree, they're really not. So glad to avoid joining anymore dating sites, it's just been horrendous experiences on those sites for me.😬

    The last dating site that was on was WooPlus and I only lasted 3 days on there, the FATishism, silly ass stalking and body shaming was too much for me...So I happily deactivated!😁👍

  • Maybe she got her reason on her invitation to banned camp

    @Mike403 😄

  • [Deleted User]TallDarkNTender (deleted user)
    edited August 2024

    There's only one race, the human race. And only one requirement to being a pro at healing others with cuddling, have a heart. Those who spend all their time trying to find -isms under every rock need only look in the mirror to find its greatest source; the unfortunate habitat for low expectations in others hidden behind narcissistic self-righteous condescension.

  • Ummm...🤣🤣🤣

  • Someone is trying to bring the world's negative commentary to CC, we have enough all on our own for someone to interject more.

  • Bye Felisha

  • [Deleted User]TheDreamWeaver (deleted user)

    I have seen many profiles for people of all ethnic backgrounds and of all sides. Any I know that it’s my preference to cuddle a person with a little fluff on their bones. If anyone is denied Professional Cuddler status, I would suspect it would be peruse their application or screen name may have included a red flag.

  • [Deleted User]Skittlebaggz (deleted user)

    I’m 2:29am dark and I am a Pro. I’ve seen plenty of BBWs. Believe it or not, I get more cuddle requests from white men than black men. I don’t discriminate bc everyone deserves a hug❤️

  • That's not true.

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