Restrictions on sending messages for new users

yolo1234

It’s annoying that I cannot send more than 2-3 messages a day. New users are desperate to get a session but due to new profile they don’t get the attention and responses and they are now restricted to the 2-3 messages a day. This is annoying. Does anyone know how long the restriction stays? Will it go away after the first session? There needs to be user friendly features instead of restrictions which affects genuine users than the scammers. Scammers can create new accounts to circumvent restrictions but genuine users don’t have time and energy to create new account and fill up bio. Thanks

Debster

You're a very good writer. I miss living in Maryland where people are smart.

yolo1234

Hi debster thanks for your response. I agree with you that’s why I chose maryland as my home after living in New York and Minneapolis. People are educated here and tolerant. Nice to meet you. If you ever come to dc, please message me. Would love to meet you. Thanks

yolo1234

Thanks everyone who visited my profile after seeing my message. I wish I could respond in person but can’t due to new user restrictions. Lol.

@yolo1234 I am a newbie also. I think patience will most likely lead you to much success on this site. I am certain there are good reasons for the initial restrictions. Good luck.

yolo1234

Thanks for the response gem7. I am sure I am not the only one. Lol. I am sure I will find my first cuddler soon. Good luck to you too. Cheers

@yolo1234 Let me know when your first cuddle happens so I can salute you by having a cold beer. Lol

As I recall the limit is about 8 per day. The limit never goes away, but I found that after a day or two the limit was no longer an issue as there are only so many people in my area, and you start having conversations and can only keep up with so many.

You may have more people in your area than me, but even if you're only looking for enthusiasts, I'm sure you'll find someone eventually. You're probably more likely to burn out on sending messages than to continue hitting the daily cap anyway.

yolo1234

@gem7 will surely let you know. Came very close to my first session on the weekend but it didn’t materialize. Cheers

yolo1234

@donhulio thanks for the response. I don’t think it’s 8 because i only contacted 3 people and hit the limit. Maybe it depends on how new the account is.
I contacted enthusiasts but they don’t respond. Paid ones respond but hard to book. Unfortunately there are no cuddlers in my area. That’s an issue. Most are far so either they need to come or I need to go to them. That could be the reason for slow or no responses. Wish me good luck! Poor men struggle not only on dating sites but also in these paid cuddle sites. Lol

achetocuddle

I did not realize this and glad to find out. I've chatted with a few members in Maryland and really like them. And they are smart and have other good qualities also.

MonkeyNeedsAHug

I wonder if the OP has had success in other environments (that have been operating without his input for years) announcing how rules need to change to suit his immediate “needs” without first inquiring why those rules exist in the first place.

I would hesitate to cuddle with anyone displaying such a lack of regard for others.

CharlieBear

If scammers are making new accounts, then they are facing the same restriction on each account. This is in place to prevent people from making new accounts and spamming other members. There was an incident where a spammer (or spammers) were making making tons of new accounts and sending pornographic/scam links to hundreds of people. If you want to direct your anger at someone, that is where I’d start.

yolo1234

@achetocuddle thank you. Yes people are educated in maryland. Most of them. Thanks for your input.

yolo1234

@MonkeyNeedsAHug ouch! Thanks for your input sir. I appreciate your feedback. I wasn’t angry or complaining or wanting to change the rules. It’s a good thing that rules are in place. I just wanted to know if the restrictions go away after one has cuddled! Or do they remain in place? I assume it’s only for the new users/accounts. Again thanks for your feedback. I agree with you.

yolo1234

@CharlieBear i completely agree with you. Scammers are everywhere and I am sure if CC introduced these restrictions, there must be a reason. It was just my view point that I was sharing. People are not contacting because they see it’s a new account and I am restricted and can’t contact more than a couple of cuddlers each day. But if everyone is ok then I am ok. I will eventually find someone. Fingers crossed 🤞 😊🙌

ReltvlyCanshes

I did not know there was a limit. I knew that fresh cuddles are restricted by how many people can message them. But i never met the limit.

UREverything

Its not helpful. I get it for newly created account and spam blocking. But for established accounts its not good.

JohnR1972

I had no idea there was a limit. Been here for 3 years and have never bumped into that limit.

yolo1234

@BashfulLoner I think they recently introduced it to limit spam attacks. Have a good day!

yolo1234

@ScroogeMcducky i agree it’s not helpful at all. Just sitting and waiting for 24 hrs for the limit period to be over. Have a good day!

yolo1234

@JohnR1972 yes seems to be a new thing. Fingers crossed. Hope to find my first cuddler soon. Have a good day!

OverTheMooon

Well, I will say it's in the rules that you can exchange numbers/email after scheduling and confirming a session. This is what I've done, and i never knew there was a limit to messages. As long as the sessions are booked on-site it's fine. For enthusiasts, it's even simpler

That tidbit makes the system better than you suggest. Scammers (and, more likely, trolls) get limited and hopefully pros have a good sense not to share their contact with questionable clients.
If a pro doesn't feel comfy sharing, they might not feel enthusiastic about chatting for long periods.

Nice car 👍

yolo1234

@OverTheMooon thanks for the feedback. I agree with you. And thanks for the car comment. Good to see people who love nice cars. Have a great day!! 🙌👍