Has anyone ever become attracted to a cuddler? I dont mean like wanted to have sex but I mean like you want to be with this person because your soul touched
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Cuddling a good cuddle is a great exercise in feeling containment. Knowing you shouldn't and being able to control it is a useful skill in emotional health. At least what i tell myself.
Throughout my life I have caught feelings constantly. I have a pattern of becoming attracted to unavailable women. Anybody who pays attention to me from a waitress who touches my arm while walking by my table to a customer when I worked at blockbuster video in the 90s who always talked to me when she came in to rent…story of my life .🤷♂️
@Spud424 i share that affliction, a barista, or a bartender get my attention all the time. If they are nice I'm full on crush mode. But in most cases it's in check i know what it is, but an attentive cuddler will pull different strings than the others. Pour me a drink and give me a hug i don't know if i could say no lol.
I'd never thought I'd catch feelings for someone on this site but here we are...
We talk about touch starvation, but there's also its companion, affection starvation. And it can be hard to identify. You just know that something is missing. And cuddling provides something you need. Not just the physical connection but the emotional connection. It's hard to describe, but you know you want more. And so, what appears to be infatuation.
The way I sum it up for myself is that I can't tell the difference between "comfortable with" and "in love with". I try to keep this in mind when I feel like I've caught feelings for someone.
@Spud424 I feel that, its hard to accept that people are being nice but to also have a need to be wanted thats truly a pain in know very well
@IronLemon you said it this is very true
So I would ask a follow up question to what do you do than? Let it go or talk about it?
Good morning, Worm your honour The crown will plainly show the prisoner Who now stands before you Was caught red-handed, showing feelings Showing feelings of an almost human nature This will not do.
I have been and I wonder if it isn't some sort of limerence related to affection starvation because, while I enjoy spending time with this cuddler, I don't know him very well other than superficially.
I wear a mask throughout the session. That prevents me from catching feelings.
We’re all human. There’s plenty of people that have fallen in love with their professional providers: hair stylist, gym trainers, etc. And several former cuddlers of mine have fallen in love with clients and went off the site. It happens, despite what others have said.
Im not aware that professional cuddlers are formally licensed heath care care providers and bound by HIPPA (which explicitly make romantic encounters a license violation and possible expulsion). However, the rules of the site are fairly explicit being a platonic encounter, not a romantic one. And I think there are other forums that have discussed this topic?
Keep in mind that if you have feeling towards someone, they are not always mutual. And you need to distinguish between short term joy and long term connection. Welcome to life and the world of relationships.
I’ve left a big target for all the smart women to weigh in here.
Not an issue for me but then again I'm part space alien who is dead inside
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@pmvines Me too, plus there's my physical attraction to werewolves, vampires, trolls, demons, etc "affliction" as well. 😊
So by cuddling humans, there are no concerns of my "catching feelings" (that are non platonic) for any of them.😁🫂
@Sooson Good strategy, you got there! 😁👍
@Katota Did you say trolls ? Well that means that approximately 15 percent of posters on these forums are suitable then
@pmvines Lol! True, but they're still not my kind of trolls though.😁😜
@pmvines Unless those trolls resemble Edward here (Hansel And Gretel Witch Hunters), I will likely pass on "catching feelings".😁😜
@Sooson when you mentioned wearing a mask throughout the session prevents you from catching feelings. Being institutionalized by the COVID era, made me immediately think about a respirator, N95, etc. Silly me. I understand now. Lol
Yea my wife was a pro caught feelings for a client. She moved out with him. Few momths later she filed for dviroce and married him 3 mths after the court date. Go figure. Life moves on
I've never had a romantic attachment to anyone, but I have had the squish feeling, which is a non-romantic crush. The childlike carefree, attentive, fun, engaging, cuddlers, they're hard to forget.
That's when I wish I was in enthusiast I would just have those three or four cuddlers that I like, and cuddle them all the time..
I’m actually super duper in mad love with a cuddler on this site. @ninjaturtle102
This thread led me to a new term called 'platonic love'. Everyday I have this or agape love of some nature. Yes I have caught feelings. When I signed up here I did so because I felt like my soul was was frozen and wanted to see if cuddling could unthaw my ability to care about strangers. It did. So I stay to prevent an internal ice age. Until I another path opens that is in line with my energy. Then I will gladly depart and be thankful for the power of platonic 💘.
When I used to use this site alot on my previous account I did catch feelings twice but i got around it by just seeing different people. I find it can only become an issue when I see one person exclusively but sometimes they're so good I want to repeat.
@FutureHeart2023 I'm so sorry 😞
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Wow that is terrible @FutureHeart2023 Im really sorry
Cuddle Comfort banned this guy for catching feelings
My partner and I met on a dating group on facebook but the first time we met in person was because he hired me as a professional cuddler. I generally won't see someone I have met in that fashion but his energy about it made me want to. When he and I met it was strictly professional but we have talked about it since and we both knew in that first meeting that we were meant to be in eachothers life. Before I left he told me that he would definitely be hiring me again but he wasn't sure when because of money and I told him I would be happy to cuddle anytime and that he would never need to pay me again. (i have definitely loved cuddling with clients before but never have i said something like that before). We are both rock nerds and shortly after he bought me a very nice crystal i didn't have and when we met for coffee so he could give it to me, neither of us wanted our meet up to end. last sunday was 2 years from that day and we have been together ever since.