Thanks @MRyanNYC For validating my response. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 I read somewhere that Men are from Mars. Women are from Venus.
I am not sure that you're gonna be satisfied my guy, gotta stop spinning your wheels at some point
@BashfulLoner
Buyers? Dealers? Trying to understand abbreviations
if you refer to SB / SD. The B's are the dealers, and the D's are the buyers believe it or not
@starrynitecuds If there's an "elitist and entitled attitude" coming from one of us, it's certainly not me. Perhaps as a Pro you're not all that interested in the Enthusiast side of this site, but the cuddles here are open to all and being a Pro or paying for one is not a requirement.
@MRyanNYC Actually, you are incorrect: I am enthusiast, NOT a pro. Since you were already informed of that by @TheFunCartel and have purposely chosen to ignore it, speaks volumes about you ignoring facts.
Cuddling is not a "premium" service of this site...it's the primary purpose of the site, for Pros and Enthusiasts alike. Perhaps it's you who seems to misunderstand that.
I never said cuddling was a premium service. Your enthusiast vetting and onboarding suggestion would be a premium service. That's a lot of site resources for the enthusiast side, when the client side doesn't get that much.
You say "you get what you pay for". Some of us prefer the idea that "the best things in life are free". Thankfully we are both entitled to our own opinions on that matter.
Cuddling even as an enthusiast isn't free. There's gas money, food money, parking fees, hotel charges... That's not free.
Unreasonable?
Yes. (For reference:)
@MRyanNYC You may feel that people here have been hostile to you. I honestly tried to answer the question and to add to what others already said. Has your question not been answered yet?
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Sometimes, folks don't want an answer, they want someone to agree with them.
I'm an enthusiast considering taking a break for some health issues, in my case. And @4cuddles hit the nail on the head. We as women have the extra concern of safety. My last session was terrible, and really kicked up my fight or flight response, so I wanted to leave early. He tried to tell me I had to stay until our agreed upon time. The h3ll I do, sir, I'm not providing a paid service! Even pros have the right to end a session early if they feel the ick.
I get OP's frustration, but as others have said, you can't control others' behavior, and in my case, life happens.
Happens quite often.
@md_ireland wow, that's especially scary. I'm sorry that happened.
Dear OP, I am glad for you that you see how things really are and best wishes on your cuddle quest