Questions from a newbie

CaramelNotesCaramelNotes
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Hello

I'm new here and I have a few questions.💞

  1. How do you remain/stay safe? 🙏🏽

  2. Any advice for a newbie? I haven't written a bio yet bc I'm not sure what I want to include.😫

  3. I'm interested in cuddling for the sake of cuddling now but may want to apply to become a Pro later. Any advice? I'm not interested in taking money before becoming a Pro and I'm not interested in breaking any rules ever. I'm trying to understand how everything works. 🙏🏽

  4. Not a question but I just reported and blocked a guy because he kept making suggestive comments after I made it clear I was looking for platonic only. Is this common? I guess I did have a question there 😆

  5. I have some questions for the women pros - if you are willing to answer, will you inbox me? I'm guessing that's the best way to ask. 🤔

  6. The boundaries conversation is extremely important. How do you address someone disrespecting your boundaries? 👁️ 👄 👁️

  7. Happy cuddling! 💖🥰💕

Comments

  • warmlyhelenawarmlyhelena

    These are all very good questions! And it's good you are asking them before you dive in, as well as reporting bad behavior from the start. @CuddleDuncan has shared some great guides in the past, and there's a lot of helpful information in the forums.

    I am happy to share my experiences (briefly as an enthusiast, mostly as a pro) if you like. I will inbox you now!

  • ReltvlyCanshesReltvlyCanshes
    edited October 2024

    Good questions. Take in the advice. Be prepared to be directed to other threads. And don't take much personal . Also be very discerning in who you choose to cuddle whether it's as an enthusiast or a professional.

  • zaleazalea

    Hi, also new here! This page was pretty helpful for me :)

    Welcome and hope you enjoy the cuddles!! 💜

  • KatotaKatota

    I just reported and blocked a guy because he kept making suggestive comments after I made it clear I was looking for platonic only. Is this common?

    HA! 😁

    Very common, just keep on blocking and reporting those that fail at understanding (and respecting ) what PLATONIC means. Good luck and welcome! 😄

  • 4cuddles4cuddles

    Welcome :)

    2nd what @Katota said.

    Highly recommend blocking & reporting at the first inappropriate message:) Don't bother redirecting / continue the convo, whoever pushes boundaries knows what they r doing.

    Taking your time b4 turning into a Pro sounds sensible. Trust your instincts. Heads up, the forums can get heated but there are also many wise, funny & supportive people to balance things.

  • GuyverGordonGuyverGordon

    @CaramelNotes

  • KuddlyKoalaKuddlyKoala

    @CaramelNotes
    I recommend really trying to understand your personal why behind becoming a pro. If it's just money, you probably won't last.

    Also, setting strict boundaries is very important. If you have low self-esteem and struggle with feeling worthy, I DO NOT recommend cuddling strangers. People will absolutely try to take advantage of your insecurities, just like in every other avenue of life, except this is in physically intimate situations where you can easily be pressured if you're not confident in your boundaries. Saying "I'm not comfortable with this" or "I don't want to continue this session" should NOT feel difficult to say to someone. Communicate how you feel and know that how you feel is what matters in a situation where you're giving someone access to your physical space. Consent can be given and taken away.

    Be confident and don't second-guess your safety.

  • vipcuddlevipcuddle

    I'm almost 2 month old has newbie here, I tell all men plz be gentlemen, I talk to them before meeting to make sure there's no drama ,also ask money upfront .has for safety I carry knife 🔪 I also have eye at the door .I block the ones are rude .I also have alarm sound that's loud .I never have to use this but you never know good luck

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