Why Am Not Getting Requests?

BeautynBrains1

I was super excited about this new cuddling position but haven’t been receiving any cuddle requests whatsoever. I’m starting to feel that it’s because of my looks. Am I not attractive enough? Is my profile not interesting enough? Please view my profile and give me some pointers. Thanks!

Katelyn_B

I think it might be likely because you a pro pending approval. Those who want to cuddle without money being involved (enthusiasts) aren't going to book with you because they don't want a situation where they make arrangements before you are allowed to charge and then later have to pay.

Those who are willing to pay are probably waiting for you to be approved.

lovingspoonfull

I didn’t see a pro pending label? If that’s the case then yeah a lot of folks would wait and see.

Hello @BeautynBrains1 I think you’ve got a nice and descriptive profile. I’m not seeing any red flags. Biggest barrier for me would be I don’t meet your criteria since I’m not a woman. From that perspective it seems that you’re not hearing from men because they might be respecting your stated preference. I don’t know the stats on women seeking women cuddlers, so can’t speak to that.

Some folks do have issues with your marriage status - maybe reassure them that it’s not an issue for you.

As far as enhancements to your profile, it’s a nice intro but it’s always nice to speak directly to some aspect of your cuddling. Style, preferences, approach, etc.

You mention pets, some folks have allergies. Might specify what kind to offer reassurance.

Good luck and hope you find the cuddles you’re looking for!